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Topic Lets say you meet a guy who flirts with you, calls you sexy, and then.
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Anonymous Posted at 6:39 pm on June 12, 2008
so girls, lets say you randomly meet a guy at college.....he flirts with you and you flirted back, he even called you "hey sexy..."

it was great, and then you go on facebook to friend him.....you find out that he's "in a relationship"

how would you feel?  would that have any effect on your impression of his character?

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Dave310 Posted at 11:38 am on June 13, 2008
you shouldn't feel anything. I guy will flirt with anyone who gives him attention. Don't take it so seriously. Just because he flirts doesn't mean he is into you.
Ezmi Posted at 6:51 pm on June 12, 2008
Lol didnt you get this in HS?
i mean, most of my friends call me out like that..
it really doesnt mean much.. he's jus doin his best to catch your attention

if you go over to him and he talks and you think he's flirtin, you know maybe thats jsut the way he is. he's confident enough to call ya that in public.. he just knows girls good enough to know what they like to hear. its like a baby.. they know they get more attention if they scream than if they stay quite. thats sorta like what he's doin...
dont take it offensive if ya find out he's got a girl =)

PAOlivia Posted at 6:46 pm on June 12, 2008
there is nothing wrong with flirting now if he tries anymore say good bye
xbritishprincessx Posted at 6:45 pm on June 12, 2008
Quote: from lally at 2:40 am on June 13, 2008

Well i would think to myself, "player" and move on.

same
MorningStar Posted at 6:43 pm on June 12, 2008
Quote: from lally at 5:10 am on June 13, 2008

Well i would think to myself, "player" and move on.

That's what I was thinking at first, but there is a such thing as polyamory.  People can be in romantic love (Eros) with two or more people at the same time, because it's happened to me in the past.

So maybe he might have an open relationship with his girlfriend (although not many people know about polyamory so he probably doesn't).

25924225 Posted at 6:42 pm on June 12, 2008
somtimes people just put taht like ive seen people have that who r single or watever he cud of jsut gotten out of a relationship and not have changed it idk i wud indirectly ask him some way
brittany101 Posted at 6:41 pm on June 12, 2008
it shouldnt bother you... get over it...totaly not worth it
kathhleennx Posted at 6:41 pm on June 12, 2008
i wouldn't reallly caaare
snowcone200 Posted at 6:40 pm on June 12, 2008
He is trying to tease you and perhaps use you. See for some guys theres the "Wifey" the girl he actually cares for and then theres the bitch or ho. The girl they use and tease well luckily you didn't fall for it or did you.
yayamonkeys Posted at 6:40 pm on June 12, 2008
Quote: from lally at 8:40 pm on June 12, 2008

Well i would think to myself, "player" and move on.

same here

Latin Muscle Posted at 6:40 pm on June 12, 2008
Sometimes we are just too flirty, but  he could be a cheater and player so watch out.
Lally Posted at 6:40 pm on June 12, 2008
Well i would think to myself, "player" and move on.
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