Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic How do you tell a girl you're not interested? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]Malaria[/m] at 1:47 am on July 6, 2008[quote]u proolly shud not fuck that chick if u dont want problems getting the other chick[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 1:46 am on July 6, 2008 I mean she keeps calling me because she wants me to give it to her again, and I let her come over eventually and i try to just spend time with her and get some kind of a feeling from her, and i just dont feel anything, not really even lust, but i'll give it to her since she's basically begging me for it. thing is i think its because i have my eyes set on someone else that i cant get out of my head, but i dont wanna end up really hurting this girl/

Replies LivinMiiLyfe Posted at 3:04 pm on July 7, 2008 well.. sounds like you got the good. l0l akeekee! nik1 Posted at 1:56 pm on July 7, 2008 How do you tell her?  "Look, I think you are a great girl but I am not into you. I am not comfortable having sex with you or anyone else just for sex alone."  "Please, don't call anymore." Sometimes you have to hit people in the head with a mallet to get their attention....not literally, of course.  Get her attention. RainBowBow Posted at 6:05 am on July 7, 2008 yup stands and be a player if you ask me branflakes Posted at 8:30 am on July 6, 2008 you're going to have to reject her sooner or later, i hope you know. by not doing it now, you're not only increasing the chances that she'll be hurting more in the future, but you're also sacrificing your dignity and independence hi sarah Posted at 2:06 am on July 6, 2008 just say you arent interested to her face not email not msn not text message not through other people that is dog act Skyler72 rawrr Posted at 2:02 am on July 6, 2008 Just tell her... it will hurt her more if you stab her in the back. Lynds Posted at 1:58 am on July 6, 2008 My advice 2 u would be 2 just flat out tell her.I mean rejection is the worst feeling and it's going 2 hurt her I'll tell u that right now that it absolutely will.But what would hurt her worst would be 4 u 2 continue 2 doing what ur doing because thats just giving her false hope when u feel nothing for her,if that makes any sense?Basically just tell her,she'll get pissed,she'll be hurt 4 a long time thats just a no brainer but telling the truth is better even though it sometimes hurts. locz thug mizzus Posted at 1:53 am on July 6, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 3:49 am on July 6, 2008 i've told her i dont want a relationship or anything but i think she feels like she can change my mind or something... Yea a lot of girls are like that. They think that their sex will be good enough to change your mind about being in a REAL relationship with them... bigdutchman Posted at 1:51 am on July 6, 2008 cut her off soon... it'll just get harder for her if u let her get closer. Anonymous Posted at 1:49 am on July 6, 2008 Quote: from ijustdontknow at 1:48 am on July 6, 2008 Dont give "it" to her, you are just stringing her on and going to cause her more pain in the end. If you were any decent of a human being you would tell her straight up and not string her along. i've told her i dont want a relationship or anything but i think she feels like she can change my mind or something... Silenced Posted at 1:49 am on July 6, 2008 let her know that you don't wanna be in a relationship with her and that friends with benefits is as far as you can go (because that's pretty much what it is) locz thug mizzus Posted at 1:49 am on July 6, 2008 Pretty much when you have sex with a girl, she feels that you care for her... unless you set it straight from the get-go that it's just SEX... :Sigh: But if you're really not feeling the sex girl you should tell her before you hurt her even more. Tell her that your sights are set on someone else ijustdontknow Posted at 1:48 am on July 6, 2008 Dont give "it" to her, you are just stringing her on and going to cause her more pain in the end. If you were any decent of a human being you would tell her straight up and not string her along. agentxprovocateur Posted at 1:48 am on July 6, 2008 gay Cheeserock Posted at 1:48 am on July 6, 2008 Well, it sounds like she's only interested in sex anyway. Let her down gently. Most recent 15 of 17 previous replies displayed.