Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic first time with a girl Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]Zlog[/m] at 1:41 am on Aug. 28, 2008[quote]best post i've read all night some advice would be just relax and enjoy it. She's not gonna judge you. She's probably nervous too![/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post innocenteyes Posted at 1:39 am on Aug. 28, 2008 ok well i was at my girlfriends place this weekend. im 20 and NEVER gone past kissing. she was my first kiss. we've only been together like 3 weeks well last week at her place as we were making out she guided my hands down her pants. i had NO IDEA what the fuck i was doing!?!? and freaked out kinda. i had no idea where to rub. or how fast or what i was doing. i thought i was rubbing where the clit was but she was pushing my hand further down. i know where the clit is by the way lol. so dont tell me that. she kinda rushed me into it. she wasnt even wet. id always imagined we'd be making out for a good amount of time and making our way down to that. but she kinda just put my hand there at the beginning LMAO. xD so i was liek....FUCK and wasnt ready. xD she could tell i was scared and said we could stop but i know we are gonna be in the same position again soon. and i hav no idea what to do!!! can someone help lol xD giv me some advice. i feel like such a frigid loser LOL. sorry for being so graphic xD

Replies Addicted 2 Candy Posted at 1:45 pm on Aug. 28, 2008 maybe she thought u make her wet by rubbing her clit innocenteyes Posted at 2:37 am on Aug. 28, 2008 hey i only had my first kiss like 3 weeks ago xD Fouad Posted at 2:12 am on Aug. 28, 2008 Quote: from nobodyknows at 11:42 am on Aug. 28, 2008 Quote: from innocenteyes at 1:39 am on Aug. 28, 2008 ok well i was at my girlfriends place this weekend.  im 20 and NEVER gone past kissing.    she was my first kiss.    we've only been together like 3 weeks    well last week at her place as we were making out she guided my hands down her pants. i had NO IDEA what the fuck i was doing!?!? and freaked out kinda. i had no idea where to rub. or how fast or what i was doing. i thought i was rubbing where the clit was but she was pushing my hand further down. i know where the clit is by the way lol. so dont tell me that.    she kinda rushed me into it. she wasnt even wet. id always imagined we'd be making out for a good amount of time and making our way down to that. but she kinda just put my hand there at the beginning LMAO. xD so i was liek....FUCK and wasnt ready. xD    she could tell i was scared and said we could stop    but i know we are gonna be in the same position again soon. and i hav no idea what to do!!!    can someone help lol xD    giv me some advice. i feel like such a frigid loser LOL.    sorry for being so graphic xD well at least you got that far! i havnt even got a kiss OH! Satine Posted at 2:03 am on Aug. 28, 2008 Right, okay, a bit of information on the female body: When humans evolved from quadrupedal to bipedal, the area on the inside of the vagina that the male's penis is meant to rub against to give her pleasure was moved, so giving a woman pleasure is a bit tricky. It didn't move too far, however, and the solution is to apply pressure to the front wall of the vagina (which you can do with your fingers (the G spot) or by having sex in any position that will strike the front wall, such as doggy style). There is another way to access that patch of flesh and that is via the clitoris. Getting a girl wet can take from a minute or so to about 15 minutes - I'm afraid there's a fair bit of variation, but your girl will be able to tell you more or less how long that'll take. Tip: a woman's personal scent gets stronger when she's aroused, so that might provide a clue for you. Finally: there's something of a myth that girls invariably like sex to go slow. Although I don't doubt there are girls out there who like it that way, some of us do want a faster-paced act. I know I prefer it that way, personally, but I think a lot of men out there assume that if they go fast they won't satisfy her. So if she's nudging you in the direction of moving faster, by all means do it, unless you need to go slow yourself. Good luck for next time - you'll be fine. first time, regardless of the myth, isn't always the best, so don't feel under too much pressure. First time, I think, is more about learning the mechanics of sex. innocenteyes Posted at 1:43 am on Aug. 28, 2008 Quote: from Zlog at 1:41 am on Aug. 28, 2008 best post i've read all night LMAO ..thanks? xD Bi Kris Posted at 1:43 am on Aug. 28, 2008 ask her to show you how she wants you to please her like that. if she tries moves your hand let her. nobodyknows Posted at 1:42 am on Aug. 28, 2008 Quote: from innocenteyes at 1:39 am on Aug. 28, 2008 ok well i was at my girlfriends place this weekend.   im 20 and NEVER gone past kissing. she was my first kiss. we've only been together like 3 weeks well last week at her place as we were making out she guided my hands down her pants. i had NO IDEA what the fuck i was doing!?!? and freaked out kinda. i had no idea where to rub. or how fast or what i was doing. i thought i was rubbing where the clit was but she was pushing my hand further down. i know where the clit is by the way lol. so dont tell me that. she kinda rushed me into it. she wasnt even wet. id always imagined we'd be making out for a good amount of time and making our way down to that. but she kinda just put my hand there at the beginning LMAO. xD so i was liek....FUCK and wasnt ready. xD she could tell i was scared and said we could stop but i know we are gonna be in the same position again soon. and i hav no idea what to do!!! can someone help lol xD giv me some advice. i feel like such a frigid loser LOL. sorry for being so graphic xD well at least you got that far! i havnt even got a kiss   BackPorch Posted at 1:42 am on Aug. 28, 2008 Eh. It honestly sounds like you aren't comfortable doing it yet or you wouldn't feel so embarrassed about it. If thats the case just tell her you want to take it slower, and you aren't very experienced. I am sure she will understand. Zlog Posted at 1:41 am on Aug. 28, 2008 best post i've read all night some advice would be just relax and enjoy it. She's not gonna judge you. She's probably nervous too! cuttergirl13 Posted at 1:41 am on Aug. 28, 2008 congrats... All 10 previous replies displayed.