Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Uhhh... hmm Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]OverTheAir[/m] at 8:31 am on Sep. 21, 2008[quote]I don't think it's slutty. The only part that seems a little bitchy is "they're not 100% single"[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 8:29 am on Sep. 21, 2008 It's not slutty if you've slept with them in the past, right? Like, you go to a party to meet up with an old boyfriend, who is coming out of a complicated relationship, and you guys spend a lot of the night flirting and making out, and you end up on the floor at your best friend's apartment half naked, and then you just give in and have sex? Not slutty, because... you had a thing in the past? Or slutty because they're not 100% single, and even though you like them, you don't really want to date them again, just be friends?

Replies Anonymous Posted at 9:15 pm on Sep. 21, 2008 Quote: from penguincube at 10:34 am on Sep. 21, 2008 Define "coming out of" a relationship. That is my biggest concern. I don't judge people based on who they have sex with, but since you seem concerned with a general societal definition of 'slutty,' that is generally defined by the number of people you have sex with, not who, so no, doing an ex does not necessarily classify you as slutty.   Though some people may be concerned based on your description of events that you do not have a horrible amount of self control, and might end up doing something that you regret, one day. That last part is dead on unfortunately.  I need to learn self control before I do something that can't be fixed. penguincube Posted at 9:34 am on Sep. 21, 2008 Define "coming out of" a relationship.  That is my biggest concern. I don't judge people based on who they have sex with, but since you seem concerned with a general societal definition of 'slutty,' that is generally defined by the number of people you have sex with, not who, so no, doing an ex does not necessarily classify you as slutty. Though some people may be concerned based on your description of events that you do not have a horrible amount of self control, and might end up doing something that you regret, one day. Jaguar Posted at 8:53 am on Sep. 21, 2008 Sex with an ex. Always good to maintain an old friendship. You just need it sometimes. Anonymous Posted at 8:47 am on Sep. 21, 2008 Quote: from Testosterone junkie at 9:30 am on Sep. 21, 2008 Quote: from SpM at 8:30 am on Sep. 21, 2008 Why do you give a shit? this Because it's my life?  idk.  why are you mean? =[ alexisdanielle Posted at 8:36 am on Sep. 21, 2008 So..friends with benefits? futurehardhed jarhed Posted at 8:32 am on Sep. 21, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 8:29 am on Sep. 21, 2008 It's not slutty if you've slept with them in the past, right? Like, you go to a party to meet up with an old boyfriend, who is coming out of a complicated relationship, and you guys spend a lot of the night flirting and making out, and you end up on the floor at your best friend's apartment half naked, and then you just give in and have sex? Not slutty, because... you had a thing in the past? Or slutty because they're not 100% single, and even though you like them, you don't really want to date them again, just be friends? This, too, also rates a Whiskey Tango Foxtrot, over OverTheAir Posted at 8:31 am on Sep. 21, 2008 I don't think it's slutty. The only part that seems a little bitchy is "they're not 100% single" The Immortal Lie Posted at 8:30 am on Sep. 21, 2008 Gah, humans. Solomon Grundy Posted at 8:30 am on Sep. 21, 2008 Quote: from SpM at 8:30 am on Sep. 21, 2008 Why do you give a shit? this Molfsontan Posted at 8:30 am on Sep. 21, 2008 I slightly agree that is isn't slutty... SpM Posted at 8:30 am on Sep. 21, 2008 Why do you give a shit? All 11 previous replies displayed.