Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic So, uh... what to do? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]Amb3rLynn[/m] at 9:12 pm on Sep. 25, 2008[quote]its a job.. a really good job.. and i dont think it should matter and in my opinion i dont think it woud affect you either.. if it doesnt bug you why should it matter? just think about what you really want to do.. not what other people are going to think.. [/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post FurryPanther Posted at 9:08 pm on Sep. 25, 2008 Well, today I was just offered a job by a scout from BluMedia Studios. If you don't know what that is, it's a gay pornography company. And I don't know what to do. I mean, I love sex, I love money, and I'm not shy. I'm certainly not concerned about friends finding out about it, because they'd never look there. As for travel and such, it's all covered, with a potential gain of $600 - $3000 per shoot. So we're talking good money. But I'm not sure about how this might affect my future. Do gay porn artists go on to do other things? Can they? How can this realistically affect me? I'm just not sure if I should or shouldn't. There are a lot of good pros, but the cons are vague in severity, making this decision a difficult one to make. Also, there's a guy who I'm interested in that I'm not sure how it would work, although I get the idea he might not be completely opposed... FP

Replies ktownchick84 Posted at 4:20 pm on Sep. 27, 2008 if it's something you want to do and the moneys really that good then go for it senorita smirnoff Posted at 10:41 pm on Sep. 26, 2008 its an opportunity to get pretty well set up money wise, and even if this guy might take issue with it, u could set a time limit and say i will do this for this amount of time or untill i earn this much money, and that way u can come back together later when the situation might be more suitable for you guys to be together Glow Worm Posted at 6:02 pm on Sep. 26, 2008 Do it. I can't see any reason not to. FurryPanther Posted at 3:49 pm on Sep. 26, 2008 So the deadline is Monday... I have a little to think it over. FP Seanee Posted at 2:59 pm on Sep. 26, 2008 You'd never get rid of the fact you did it, if you became rich and famous who knows who will bring it up? audrey820 Posted at 10:10 am on Sep. 26, 2008 Ahh, Jordan. You always manage to get stuck in a tough situation. As far as doing porn in general goes, only you can decide if you want to do it. It could impact your future, yes. But given your desired career, I doubt anyone will care if their chef did porn at one point. You know? So I can't see this impacting future employment opportunities. There aren't really any careers for porn stars based on their history. Like if you want to get famous off of it, don't bother. I can count on one hand how many porn stars have become generally well known off of their career. You'd most likely gain fans and gain money, but not have too many people realize that you were in porn. Gay porn has an even smaller market than straight porn, so that's good if you're hoping most people won't notice in the future. You'd still get to go on and do whatever you want. I can't see any real negatives, honestly. I know your views of sex and this doesn't clash at all. God, I'm being wordy today. Sorry. I know this potential relationship means a lot to you. And he could end up being fine with dating someone who does porn. It would depend on how he sees sex, more than likely. Can you call the scout and ask for time to think it over? Then that gives you a bit of time to talk to the guy and see how he feels about porn. I would mention it in general and see how he feels about porn stars. Most people are either fine with it or disgusted and I bet he'll reveal it in a conversation. Or this may rush things and mean you have to tell him about your feelings for him so you can make this decision about your life. Honestly, you won't get many chances like the one offered to you. So you are in a tight spot and have to know if there's a chance of him being interested in you.  And if he would ever date someone involved in the porn industry. Sorry I couldn't be more specific. But a lot depends on the guy's reaction. And even then, if you mind the chance of being noticed as a porn actor by coworkers or maybe even employers. It's all up to you to decide if it's worth the risk. I SAY DO IT THOUGH! gunger Posted at 5:42 am on Sep. 26, 2008 do it for the money m8 FurryPanther Posted at 10:39 pm on Sep. 25, 2008 Quote: from jamesish at 11:38 pm on Sep. 25, 2008 Quote: from FurryPanther at 1:32 am on Sep. 26, 2008 As long as I'd know he'd always come back to me, not at all. But not everyone is as open minded as I am.    FP I think thats what honestly lets pornographic actors have girlfriends and boyfriends and all that jazz. By when must you make a decision? Has this been a long dream of yours? Not a dream at all. More like an opportunity for a jump start. FP hI jAMES Posted at 10:38 pm on Sep. 25, 2008 Quote: from FurryPanther at 1:32 am on Sep. 26, 2008 As long as I'd know he'd always come back to me, not at all. But not everyone is as open minded as I am. FP I think thats what honestly lets pornographic actors have girlfriends and boyfriends and all that jazz.  By when must you make a decision?  Has this been a long dream of yours? FurryPanther Posted at 10:32 pm on Sep. 25, 2008 Quote: from jamesish at 11:29 pm on Sep. 25, 2008 Well, you could definately see why he would have a problem with it. I wouldn't make any decisions until you really talk to him. You said you want something meaningful. Try this. Put yourself in his position. Would you have a problem with it? As long as I'd know he'd always come back to me, not at all. But not everyone is as open minded as I am. FP hI jAMES Posted at 10:29 pm on Sep. 25, 2008 Quote: from FurryPanther at 1:26 am on Sep. 26, 2008 Quote: from jamesish at 11:24 pm on Sep. 25, 2008 Your biggest worry seems to be relationship aspect of it.  What exactly are you wanting to do?  Cast?  Direct?  Star? The offer was as an actor. FP Well, you could definately see why he would have a problem with it.  I wouldn't make any decisions until you really talk to him.  You said you want something meaningful.  Try this.  Put yourself in his position.  Would you have a problem with it? FurryPanther Posted at 10:26 pm on Sep. 25, 2008 Quote: from jamesish at 11:24 pm on Sep. 25, 2008 Your biggest worry seems to be relationship aspect of it. What exactly are you wanting to do? Cast? Direct? Star? The offer was as an actor. FP hI jAMES Posted at 10:24 pm on Sep. 25, 2008 Your biggest worry seems to be relationship aspect of it. Talking to him and explaining to him this is a good oppurtunity for you could seal the deal. What exactly are you wanting do?  Cast?  Star?  Direct?  Combination? blufindr Posted at 9:26 pm on Sep. 25, 2008 Quote: from FurryPanther at 2:19 pm on Sep. 26, 2008 I'm hoping for something with meaning with this guy... That it is. FP Well, he might not have a problem with it? GdFtherOFCOWS Posted at 9:22 pm on Sep. 25, 2008 I have never heard of gay pornstars going onto other things, or pornstars for that matter.  Usually no none cares about them after they leave the business.  If you plan on running for a state office, you might get some backlash about this. If you are worried about something things, publicity wise, you could always use a fake name.   You could ask the guy in question about it, and it doesn't hurt to call the scout back and ask more questions. Most recent 15 of 24 previous replies displayed.