Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Is he dumping me but is too nice to say so? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]MerlinaAddams[/m] at 6:39 pm on Oct. 24, 2008[quote]My boyfriend said "I don't deserve you. You're too good for me." And he said I meant a lot to him and that he was glad I didn't break up with him. So does this mean that he has a low self-esteem or is this just another way of saying "It's not you, it's me"? Should I ask him directly what he means by that?[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post MerlinaAddams Posted at 6:39 pm on Oct. 24, 2008 My boyfriend said "I don't deserve you. You're too good for me." And he said I meant a lot to him and that he was glad I didn't break up with him. So does this mean that he has a low self-esteem or is this just another way of saying "It's not you, it's me"? Should I ask him directly what he means by that?

Replies nik1 Posted at 12:21 pm on Oct. 27, 2008 Sounds like a line I used once when I wanted to break with a girl. Absolutely....ask him to explain over and over until he has the balls to tell you exactly what he means. helloworld Posted at 8:13 pm on Oct. 24, 2008 Quote: from MerlinaAddams at 9:39 pm on Oct. 24, 2008 Should I ask him directly what he means by that? Yes. jennay Posted at 6:46 pm on Oct. 24, 2008 he sounds insecure. i would avoid dating an insecure boy if i were you sicosys Posted at 6:44 pm on Oct. 24, 2008 self esteem issues... hold him close when he says that... guys love that shit even if they dont admit it! 2kewl4u2know Posted at 6:42 pm on Oct. 24, 2008 My boyfriend says that sometimes, usually when he's feeling down on himself...so I think it's more low self-esteem. All 5 previous replies displayed.