Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic oral sex Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]YoureCrashing[/m] at 11:17 am on Nov. 9, 2008[quote]It might take along time, I've been in that situation. Maybe she's just not on that level of trust with you yet.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post wingedmisery Posted at 11:13 am on Nov. 9, 2008 My girlfriend and i have been together for 8 months and she has never gone down on me. I am ok with it, I have accepted that fact. I am not complaining, but I was wondering if anyone else's partner doesn't go down on them? (we are both women so it's kind of a big deal)

Replies sparetime Posted at 1:04 pm on Nov. 13, 2008 Well if you can't discuss everything with your partner than your relationship needs work.  I don't see her not going down on you as a problem (Frustrating, yes) but i see the fact that you ask a forum of strangers rather than your girlfriend to be a rather large problem. schoon Posted at 10:53 am on Nov. 13, 2008 Quote: from angelbaby01 at 2:14 pm on Nov. 9, 2008 oral sex rocks!!! way to make her feel bad JennyColada Posted at 1:31 am on Nov. 13, 2008 I have never had a partner, male or female, who I have not performed oral sex on or who has not done so to me. I would personally find that a bit odd myself, and probably be a bit unhappy about it. brat4life Posted at 3:47 pm on Nov. 9, 2008 well you could talk to her about it? and see whats up.... beatnik Posted at 1:17 pm on Nov. 9, 2008 so what do you do? ...scissor? Scottrick Posted at 11:24 am on Nov. 9, 2008 Talk to her about it. That's all you can do. Maybe it's just not something she likes to do. 101hereicome Posted at 11:23 am on Nov. 9, 2008 Quote: from Dawn Fire at 11:15 am on Nov. 9, 2008 i dont the idea kinda freaks me out...so i dont blame her But then why is she with her then-you're straight so you wouldn't like it I suppose. wingedmisery Posted at 11:20 am on Nov. 9, 2008 Quote: from 2kewl4u2know at 11:18 am on Nov. 9, 2008 I really don't let him do it very often anymore, but I like the fact that he's willing to do it if I wanted him to.  I don't think it's fair that you will go down on her, she probably loves it and wants you to as well, but then won't go down on you.   I think you have some issues to work out if you want this relationship to be a long-lasting one, and this is one of those issues.  Talk to her, get her to try it, and if she still doesn't, then either withhold sex from her or keep going as you are until you just get to fed up with her stubborness and you two fight. She doesn't like when i go down on her so I don't really do it. Sometimes I really want to so I do, but it's not very often. newbie69 Posted at 11:19 am on Nov. 9, 2008 Maybe she thinks ur not ready.. or she could be a lil shy to do it.. I think you should have a lil talk with her about it. try to find out why shes not doin anything.. 2kewl4u2know Posted at 11:18 am on Nov. 9, 2008 I really don't let him do it very often anymore, but I like the fact that he's willing to do it if I wanted him to.  I don't think it's fair that you will go down on her, she probably loves it and wants you to as well, but then won't go down on you.   I think you have some issues to work out if you want this relationship to be a long-lasting one, and this is one of those issues.  Talk to her, get her to try it, and if she still doesn't, then either withhold sex from her or keep going as you are until you just get to fed up with her stubborness and you two fight. YoureCrashing Posted at 11:17 am on Nov. 9, 2008 It might take along time, I've been in that situation. Maybe she's just not on that level of trust with you yet. Radioactivv Posted at 11:15 am on Nov. 9, 2008 Maybe she is just nervous. My ex boyfriend never went down on me when we were dating. Dawn Fire Posted at 11:15 am on Nov. 9, 2008 i dont the idea kinda freaks me out...so i dont blame her angelbaby01 Posted at 11:14 am on Nov. 9, 2008 oral sex rocks!!!   All 14 previous replies displayed.