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rock85cool Posted at 8:39 am on Dec. 5, 2008
I am 120% for condoms every time I have sex even getting into relationships. Although I have been in a relationship recently I find some girls get annoyed when I refuse advancement if I don't have a condom especially if we had sex prior but no condom, no sex.


What is the view on this from LW members perspective?

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TrinityJ Posted at 12:05 pm on Dec. 9, 2008
condoms for life..its not jst about babies, STDs are dirty.
tearsinheaven Posted at 8:54 pm on Dec. 8, 2008
both me and my partner lost our virginities to each other, so disease was never an issue. i'm also on the pill. but we still use a condom every time. i simply cannot get pregnant right now - i'm in school, he's just starting his career, and we're not in a situation where we can look after a child.
wallarookiller Posted at 10:25 am on Dec. 8, 2008
I always use a condom I don't care what the girl says. The last thin I need is a baybe or some wierd std
lucky015 Posted at 4:05 am on Dec. 6, 2008
All depends on trust and things like that, Generally i hate condoms because they take away some of the feeling of sex, In the end if i trust her then its all up to her, But then again, Im the sorta guy that would stick round if anything happened...
islandgirl Posted at 9:04 pm on Dec. 5, 2008
I think you're smart.

I can only see that being weird if you had previously been having unprotected sex and then suddenly wanted to use condoms (with the same person).  

EyelashWishes Posted at 3:44 pm on Dec. 5, 2008
i'm on the depo injection, so i dont need condoms for bc.
however, before ditching the condom with a new guy, i do insist to make sure we are both are clean from stis.
otherwise its not worth the risk really
rockinralfman Posted at 11:38 am on Dec. 5, 2008
i think condoms is the way to go but i always find myself never using em
morrisonsMYmuse Posted at 10:49 am on Dec. 5, 2008
i've only ever been in one relationship where sex was even an issue.. and we used condoms every single time for the first year and a half. after that.. we were engaged, and both wanted to have children.. so if it happened, it happened. we never got pregnant.. thank god..
now that that relationship is over, i don't plan on having sex again until i'm married... so condoms won't be an issue there either.
GEEraffBby Posted at 9:22 am on Dec. 5, 2008
Don't be silly, wrap your wily!
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txbball08 Posted at 9:13 am on Dec. 5, 2008
My girl and I are in an on-again off-again long term relationship.  We're both clean and disease free.  She usually uses  the pill, so I don't usually use a condom. But, if she's not on it, then I use one.  It doesn't really matter to me if I use one or not, as long as there's some sort of protection being used.

Now if it's with a girl that I'm not in a serious relationship with, then I always wear a condom.

abra cadabra Posted at 9:04 am on Dec. 5, 2008
My boyfriend and I don't use condoms, but i'm on the pill so personally we're fine with it. There's always a chance of pregnancy no matter what contraception you use, but I'd only use a condom if i weren't in a relationship because lets face it's exceptionally better without condoms, no matter who you're with. Providing you're using something else obviously!
cherryD Posted at 8:53 am on Dec. 5, 2008
Why would they get angry?

But imagine a guy sitting there, tight-lipped, hand over his crouch, shaking his head and going, "No condom. No condom."

crystal 81308 Posted at 8:52 am on Dec. 5, 2008
smart[:
Spice Posted at 8:50 am on Dec. 5, 2008
I prefer without. I have the implant =]

Once he's had an STD test.

I'll have one if he asks.

Meep123 Posted at 8:49 am on Dec. 5, 2008
If she gets so angry tell her to take the damn pill.
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