I have a friend with benefits, so to say, but anytime we're drunk/drinking, he can't get a hard on.
After a while, he gets hard, but that's after coaxing of sorts.
The more attractive the woman, the more exciting the stimulus. Period.
And what if the stimulus is something you're not quite used to being stimulated by? I mean, I have a gay friend, and he pops one sometimes around me, but it certainly has nothing to do with how attractive he thinks I am/how attractive I am.
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And you're being daft.
You can't think, "I want an erection"/"I don't want an erection". Erections are not something you can bring forth, upon yourself, or stop yourself from doing.
You're a male. You should know this.
Unless your balls have yet to drop, then I suggest you stop talking, as if you have knowledge on something you clearly do not know.
It has nothing to do with willing yourself to get an erection. It's a natural response to a stimulus. The more attractive the woman, the more exciting the stimulus. Period.
but if youre fat and agly that would explain his problem
are you hot?
That's an irrelevant question. Hard ones can be reached, looking at a tree. You can't control your erections.
Yeah, it's more difficult to get one while you're drunk, and more difficult to maintain it too. but, the upside is that you last longer in bed.
I'm not looking for a lay. Play, merely.