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planemain Posted at 5:03 pm on Dec. 29, 2008
So, i have this dorm mate who loves to walk around naked and show off his junk to me. one time i was watching a movie and he came home and just got naked and sat right next to me even though there were alot of other seats to sit in. also ive walked in on him beating off several times.... its kinda wierd. What do you think, should i say soemthing or just leave it alone i mean i have to live with him for a year more.

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nik1 Posted at 5:16 am on Jan. 1, 2009
It obviously bothers you so you should discuss it with him.  Approach it in a very non assertive manner such as; "I have a problem and I need your help."  

If I had a roommate like your I would have to assume he's making himself available for sex.  I understand why it's making you uncomfortable.

IllyrianKing Posted at 9:25 pm on Dec. 30, 2008
You haven't said anything yet???
I'd slaughter him if he tried to pull any of that gay shit on me.
blacklist Posted at 6:41 pm on Dec. 30, 2008
that is just asking for an ass beating.
underoosboy Posted at 3:52 pm on Dec. 30, 2008
Quote: from jschwa1986 at 5:07 pm on Dec. 29, 2008

If you're very uncomfortable in your own living situation, you owe it to yourself to say something in a friendly way. Just tell him how it makes you feel and that you deserve to be comfortable.

With that in mind, he deserves to be comfortable too - and obviously his nakedness and ability to do what he wants makes him comfy as all hell. Time to find a happy medium. Perhaps work with him and see if you guys can work out a schedule. Maybe he gets his naked time, but it's when he knows you won't be around. Post your detailed schedule, and ask if he could try to only masturbate when he knows he'll be alone. Keep in contact and communicate to avoid the awkwardness it's causing you.

If he's adamant that he wants to be able to be naked in his residence whenever he wants you have two options - you deal with it and try to ignore it as much as possible, or if it bothers you too much you find a way out.

Other option? Get naked too and join the party!


thats the best answer given...especially about the part of joining him, haha.   but hell, why not.

shaden Posted at 12:09 pm on Dec. 30, 2008
are you comfortable with it? if not say something, if you are then what the hell? are u sure hes not gay and hitting on you?
mond alor Posted at 5:20 pm on Dec. 29, 2008
i think my room is better i dont have a roommate hell at the moment i dont even have a piss mate but then agean im not in college
classiccardude07 Posted at 5:16 pm on Dec. 29, 2008
well if yours is bigger than show him up then maybe he will stop jk but really kick is lame ass out
Funeral Director Posted at 5:16 pm on Dec. 29, 2008
Tell him that you don't wish to see his junk.
And if he still instists on walking around in the nude talk to the ra about switching rooms
CookieMonsterr Posted at 5:11 pm on Dec. 29, 2008
Are you a girl or a boy? o0
Kgarrett Posted at 5:11 pm on Dec. 29, 2008
That is why I love to live by myself
SoaringFalcon2010 Posted at 5:09 pm on Dec. 29, 2008
uhm tell him u dont like it?
DawningMidnight Posted at 5:07 pm on Dec. 29, 2008
are you girl or boy??
Editor in Chief Posted at 5:07 pm on Dec. 29, 2008
If you're very uncomfortable in your own living situation, you owe it to yourself to say something in a friendly way. Just tell him how it makes you feel and that you deserve to be comfortable.

With that in mind, he deserves to be comfortable too - and obviously his nakedness and ability to do what he wants makes him comfy as all hell. Time to find a happy medium. Perhaps work with him and see if you guys can work out a schedule. Maybe he gets his naked time, but it's when he knows you won't be around. Post your detailed schedule, and ask if he could try to only masturbate when he knows he'll be alone. Keep in contact and communicate to avoid the awkwardness it's causing you.

If he's adamant that he wants to be able to be naked in his residence whenever he wants you have two options - you deal with it and try to ignore it as much as possible, or if it bothers you too much you find a way out.

Other option? Get naked too and join the party!

La Motta Posted at 5:06 pm on Dec. 29, 2008
Sick shit
feels good Posted at 5:05 pm on Dec. 29, 2008
a year will go but faster than you think
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