Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Don't have sex unless you're in love Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]DannyBoi[/m] at 12:08 am on June 9, 2009[quote]I'm happy for you! And I'll take your advice to heart.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post HollywoodTrashley Posted at 12:07 am on June 9, 2009 I'm glad I was in love when I did it. I'm glad I waited. It would have been awful, just awful if I wasn't. But I was and it was magical, heavenly...I did it to bring us closer together, and it seems to have worked. Don't do it on the first or second date either. You can't possibly know a person well enough. I waited four months.

Replies StilettoGirl Posted at 2:39 pm on July 8, 2009 Quote: from See Me Now at 12:17 am on June 9, 2009 Sex isn't magical... love isn't magical either. You're deluded. Love is magical for me...not sex.  Sex is awesome, but not magical.  I can't say I was IN love when I had sex but it was with someone I had loving feelings for.  I'm glad I had it with him and waited 6 months but now I dont give a crap!  I can have sex, mutual sex, with someone I don't have strong feelings for.  If he's hot and a nice guy, damn I'm there. sesso Posted at 3:07 am on July 6, 2009 I knew the guy for several years before we went out, and more than a year before we lost our virginities to eachother. Even then now looking back it was a little bit too soon, but I don't regret it. It wasn't "magical" nor did it ever become magical afterwards.. But we stayed together for another 2 nearly 3 more years. I hope to find some "magic" in the future. child of rock n roll Posted at 11:05 pm on July 2, 2009 I agree. I also waited 4 months aeternus Posted at 5:42 pm on June 20, 2009 I'm glad I was in love my first time, but I see no problem with getting some strange for fun. As long as you use protection, it's not like you're hurting anyone, and it still feels good. vde Posted at 12:26 am on June 14, 2009 mmm good advice......got anything else cuz for this we decide TigressaLynnMae Posted at 8:40 pm on June 10, 2009 I agree. I had sex with someone whom I didn't love, and I don't regret it, pers ay, but I wish it had been another person. I shall now wait for love. Capt Kuchiki Byakuya Posted at 1:15 pm on June 10, 2009 I think that's good that other people don't just jump in the bed. I have my own 3 month rule. I think people should get to know the person, and not just do it for fun. That's how the S.T.D's are raising. JennyColada Posted at 9:36 am on June 9, 2009 I have casual sex on the first date pretty awesome, and that works for me. Different people have different views about sex and about what scenarios make sex "the best". We all need to do what we enjoy and make the choices that we think are right. For me, that involves having sex in AND out of "love". Kaijuu Posted at 12:34 am on June 9, 2009 Fuck that, I'm waiting for marriage. love>marriage>sex I have to make sure they are worthy Spice Posted at 12:26 am on June 9, 2009 2guys I fucked I didn't love. The sex was better. See Me Now Posted at 12:17 am on June 9, 2009 Sex isn't magical... love isn't magical either. You're deluded. Ju5tin Posted at 12:16 am on June 9, 2009 stop shoving shit down our throats >_< Natsy Posted at 12:16 am on June 9, 2009 What do you want, a medal? Do what YOU want, but don't preach. SOME of us, naming no names (but me) won't fall in love. Neodymie Posted at 12:15 am on June 9, 2009 Post from this position was omitted due to content violations ssminow Posted at 12:15 am on June 9, 2009 yay!  :] I'm happy for you!   i regret not waiting everyday Most recent 15 of 23 previous replies displayed.