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Amberexic Posted at 6:01 pm on May 18, 2008
My boyfriend asked me if we could have a threesome(with another girl).. he says he doesn't want to have sex with the other girl, just wants us both to give him head at the same time. I told him maybe as long as she was my friend and not his, and that he didn't get to have her number. I think it'd be fun but potentially make me feel jealous or alittle insecure.

Does anyone have experience w this?

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Ice318 Posted at 11:03 am on Mar. 21, 2009
you might enjoy it. I had a threesome with my boyfriend and another girl (sex included) and it was really fun. I have NEVER felt a moment of jealousy over it.

... and tonight we might do it with another guy for the first time! yes!

Soren Kierkegaard Posted at 3:54 pm on June 17, 2008
Quote: from WigAOK9 at 6:02 pm on May 18, 2008

it sounds like a bat idea in your case! very bad
Agreed, not only does it diminish the intimacy within the relationship, but if you have to worry about the faithfulness of your partner beforehand, why tempt it?
TigressaLynnMae Posted at 3:38 pm on June 17, 2008
It doesn't hurt to experiment.

I've never had a threesome, but I'd do it, if my guy allowed/asked for it.

But it would depend on the third party. IF it were a girl, I'd probably want to pick her out, b/c I get jealous easily. And if it were a guy, I'd probably let him pick out the guy, for he gets jealous easier.

ultima171 Posted at 12:38 pm on June 17, 2008
go for it but tell him you want to have a 3some with another guy. ill be the other guy!  lol. seriously, try it but if you have any doubts don't. and make sure he is serious about "not having sex with her and not gettin her number" just be careful with the whole situation. hey if it doesn't work with him, you and your friend can both blow me... lol
Squibble Posted at 4:27 pm on June 15, 2008
Girl, honestly? Been there, done that unfortunately... It will NOT end well as you two are in a relationship and because you're not a time-tested couple. That sort of experimentation is best with people you DON'T have emotional ties to!
EyelashWishes Posted at 2:11 pm on May 26, 2008
i wouldnt suggest against this idea, unless you have a pretty secure relationship it can make partners feel jelous etc
xcutioners Posted at 2:59 am on May 26, 2008
No. Don't do it.

To me, it seems like he's just in FOR SEX, not RELATIOnSHIP

What a douche... get rid of him =/

Lillylove Posted at 12:53 pm on May 24, 2008
Threesomes can be a fun time. You and your bf must agree that there is nothing romantic about it, that it is just sexual games and  experimentation. Personally, I don't like ffm and much prefer mmf. I like  to see them compete and one of them is usually up. It isn't for everyone but since I like anal, I like the DP aspect.
nik1 Posted at 2:32 pm on May 23, 2008
What he is really saying is (a) You no longer satisfy his fantasies (b) just the beginning of more kinky sex (c) His sexual needs are more important than yours.

Most girls that would agree to this believe that they will lose their bf unless they agree to all he wants.

If you truly would be turned on by it then do it but don't be shocked if it turns into something else.

abercrombie fitch Posted at 8:36 am on May 22, 2008
Yes and it is really awkward, jealousy is usually a big issue especially watching your partner with someone else. good like finding a girl willing to give your guy a bj though.  
aeternus Posted at 8:23 am on May 22, 2008
Don't do it if you have any doubts, or if you think you'll start resenting him because of it. However, if you don't have any doubts, that'd be fucking awesome for him.
fly boy Posted at 1:47 am on May 21, 2008
if you love him you'll do it................nah just kidding...make sure your ok with it....if you have the slightest doubt in the back of your mind dont do it
sexytinkerbelle Posted at 6:09 pm on May 18, 2008
i would do it it sounds fun
Majo Posted at 6:07 pm on May 18, 2008
I'd never do it.
Amberexic Posted at 6:04 pm on May 18, 2008
lol.. have you ever watched porn? it IS possible. maybe i'd consider it once our relationship is more stable.
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