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Anonymous Posted at 8:46 pm on May 27, 2008
I'm considering multiple partners to be people you are having sex with in the same time period - ie. you sleep with Girl/Guy A on Friday and Girl/Guy B on Tuesday.

I currently am experimenting with an open relationship, and am feeling strange about it. No one seems too surprised when they hear about it - what is your experience?

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FurryPanther Posted at 8:47 am on May 29, 2008
Quote: from Anonymous at 12:49 am on May 29, 2008

Well I heard having sex with a HIV+ person will get you aids don't believe the hype. If you look at the expiration date on the condom, and if it says Best if used by 3\15\95 its liable to break.

Your source is wrong. It isn't 1005 to get HIV, and even then, it takes long time, especially with treatment, for it to develop into AIDS. And with a condom, they are damn near 100%. The chance is so low it is literally ignorable.

Your facts are way off, and as such, so are your opinions.

FP

Anonymous Posted at 11:49 pm on May 28, 2008
Quote: from FurryPanther at 8:37 pm on May 28, 2008

Quote: from KnowledgeReigns at 2:08 pm on May 28, 2008

Quote: from FurryPanther at 11:02 pm on May 27, 2008

Quote: from KnowledgeReigns at 9:52 pm on May 27, 2008

Quote: from FurryPanther at 8:51 pm on May 27, 2008

Quote: from hellomikie92 at 9:49 pm on May 27, 2008

Wow a great way to get aids.
   

    Wow. Way to demonstrate how uneducated you really are.    

    FP


   

   So having multiple sex partners doesn't increase your risk for acquiring AIDS, compared to someone who doesn't have many sexual partners? Interesting, I was unaware of that.


 

  Ever heard of condoms?  

  FP


 

 You recognize that you can still get AIDS while using a condom, right? A condom significantly reduces the chances, but it's still completely possible.


They are 98% effective against pregnancy, and 99.9% effective against all STIs. And that's assuming the person has them, which they are legally required to tell you.

you are aware that having even unprotected sex with an HIV+ person does not guarantee transmission, right? I feel damn safe. I've had a lot of sex, and I am completely clean, against everything. I don't even have oral herpes, which the majority of the sexually active population has. I think that should say something.

You 'safe' people talk down to people like me as if we don't know the risks. We're well aware of them, probably more so than you are. Don't pretend we're idiots, just because we have the guts to engage in riskier behavior.

FP


Well I heard having sex with a HIV+ person will get you aids don't believe the hype. If you look at the expiration date on the condom, and if it says Best if used by 3\15\95 its liable to break.

FurryPanther Posted at 8:37 pm on May 28, 2008
Quote: from KnowledgeReigns at 2:08 pm on May 28, 2008

Quote: from FurryPanther at 11:02 pm on May 27, 2008

Quote: from KnowledgeReigns at 9:52 pm on May 27, 2008

Quote: from FurryPanther at 8:51 pm on May 27, 2008

Quote: from hellomikie92 at 9:49 pm on May 27, 2008

Wow a great way to get aids.
   

   Wow. Way to demonstrate how uneducated you really are.    

   FP


 

  So having multiple sex partners doesn't increase your risk for acquiring AIDS, compared to someone who doesn't have many sexual partners? Interesting, I was unaware of that.


 

 Ever heard of condoms?  

 FP


You recognize that you can still get AIDS while using a condom, right? A condom significantly reduces the chances, but it's still completely possible.


They are 98% effective against pregnancy, and 99.9% effective against all STIs. And that's assuming the person has them, which they are legally required to tell you.

you are aware that having even unprotected sex with an HIV+ person does not guarantee transmission, right? I feel damn safe. I've had a lot of sex, and I am completely clean, against everything. I don't even have oral herpes, which the majority of the sexually active population has. I think that should say something.

You 'safe' people talk down to people like me as if we don't know the risks. We're well aware of them, probably more so than you are. Don't pretend we're idiots, just because we have the guts to engage in riskier behavior.

FP

KnowledgeReigns Posted at 1:08 pm on May 28, 2008
Quote: from FurryPanther at 11:02 pm on May 27, 2008

Quote: from KnowledgeReigns at 9:52 pm on May 27, 2008

Quote: from FurryPanther at 8:51 pm on May 27, 2008

Quote: from hellomikie92 at 9:49 pm on May 27, 2008

Wow a great way to get aids.

  Wow. Way to demonstrate how uneducated you really are.

  FP


 

 So having multiple sex partners doesn't increase your risk for acquiring AIDS, compared to someone who doesn't have many sexual partners? Interesting, I was unaware of that.


Ever heard of condoms?

FP


You recognize that you can still get AIDS while using a condom, right? A condom significantly reduces the chances, but it's still completely possible.

Kayling Posted at 11:14 pm on May 27, 2008
I don't consistently have multiple partners, although I have had sex with a guy once (a bf at the time) then had sex with my ex the day after (we got back together, I dumped the other guy that next day). I've only had 4 sexual partners though (and one was a one-timer that I seriously regretted afterward).  
FurryPanther Posted at 11:02 pm on May 27, 2008
Quote: from KnowledgeReigns at 9:52 pm on May 27, 2008

Quote: from FurryPanther at 8:51 pm on May 27, 2008

Quote: from hellomikie92 at 9:49 pm on May 27, 2008

Wow a great way to get aids.
 

 Wow. Way to demonstrate how uneducated you really are.  

 FP


So having multiple sex partners doesn't increase your risk for acquiring AIDS, compared to someone who doesn't have many sexual partners? Interesting, I was unaware of that.


Ever heard of condoms?

FP

Karaden Posted at 10:24 pm on May 27, 2008
1 partner. That is all I need. My baby is my baby, why would I want to hurt him?
xcutioners Posted at 9:49 pm on May 27, 2008
1 partner so far, but looking at open relationship..
aysel star Posted at 9:04 pm on May 27, 2008
College student. Have had multiple partners at one time in specific. Don't wanna go into details. I cheated.
KnowledgeReigns Posted at 8:56 pm on May 27, 2008
Quote: from Anonymous at 8:53 pm on May 27, 2008

Quote: from KnowledgeReigns at 8:52 pm on May 27, 2008

Quote: from FurryPanther at 8:51 pm on May 27, 2008

Quote: from hellomikie92 at 9:49 pm on May 27, 2008

Wow a great way to get aids.

  Wow. Way to demonstrate how uneducated you really are.

  FP


 

 So having multiple sex partners doesn't increase your risk for acquiring AIDS, compared to someone who doesn't have many sexual partners? Interesting, I was unaware of that.


 
I'm dating two men, one that I've known for two years, and one that I've known for a few months. Yes, I'm sleeping with both of them, and yes they both know it - my relationship is "open," and we use condoms every time. All of us have been tested, by the way.


And you posted this in response to what I said...  why?

Anonymous Posted at 8:53 pm on May 27, 2008
Quote: from KnowledgeReigns at 8:52 pm on May 27, 2008

Quote: from FurryPanther at 8:51 pm on May 27, 2008

Quote: from hellomikie92 at 9:49 pm on May 27, 2008

Wow a great way to get aids.
 

 Wow. Way to demonstrate how uneducated you really are.  

 FP


So having multiple sex partners doesn't increase your risk for acquiring AIDS, compared to someone who doesn't have many sexual partners? Interesting, I was unaware of that.



I'm dating two men, one that I've known for two years, and one that I've known for a few months. Yes, I'm sleeping with both of them, and yes they both know it - my relationship is "open," and we use condoms every time. All of us have been tested, by the way.

PimpMyHoes Posted at 8:53 pm on May 27, 2008
Quote: from FurryPanther at 8:47 pm on May 27, 2008

I am a college student and consistently have multiple sex partners.

FP


same. though i have my dry spells
Total Destruction Posted at 8:52 pm on May 27, 2008
i have at i time and it made me feel so guilty so i stopped talking to the other girl
KnowledgeReigns Posted at 8:52 pm on May 27, 2008
Quote: from FurryPanther at 8:51 pm on May 27, 2008

Quote: from hellomikie92 at 9:49 pm on May 27, 2008

Wow a great way to get aids.

Wow. Way to demonstrate how uneducated you really are.

FP


So having multiple sex partners doesn't increase your risk for acquiring AIDS, compared to someone who doesn't have many sexual partners? Interesting, I was unaware of that.

FurryPanther Posted at 8:51 pm on May 27, 2008
Quote: from hellomikie92 at 9:49 pm on May 27, 2008

Wow a great way to get aids.

Wow. Way to demonstrate how uneducated you really are.

FP

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