Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic i want to get married! need advice Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]Scarlet Tears[/m] at 1:43 am on Sep. 30, 2008[quote]Well if you have a solid relationship and you have money problems there wont be any harm in waiting. Beside is worst comes to worst if your not married then no doubt it would have happened in marriage and this way it'll be less messy. So just wait you'll be fine.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post smashley Posted at 1:21 am on Sep. 30, 2008 my boyfriend and i have been together for a year now, and have been talking about marriage for 6 months. we cannot get enough of eachother and are very dynamic together. we are both pentacostal christians and really value the commitment of traditional(lifelong) marriage. he has told me that he would do anything to marry me right now, he has even proposed(unoffically) with a promise ring. the only problem is we are both just starting college. i live with my parents and his mom is letting him landlord her old house(he has roomates). I feel like i want to get married now, but he thinks it would be best to wait because of the money situation. i am worried that we might be tempted by the typical college lifestyle, and seperate as a result. I DO NOT WANT THIS! would it be  best for us to be single or married through college? i really need anyone's input. message me if you have good advice. thanks.

Replies EmilyAnn Posted at 1:05 pm on Sep. 30, 2008 I would wait if I were you. You should be with him for a while longer before making such an important decision. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years practically and we're still learning things about each other. I know I'm not ready for marriage. Give it time. dreamweaver Posted at 1:45 am on Sep. 30, 2008 Don't get married right away just because you're afraid you're going to break up during college. If it's going to happen, it will happen. You don't want to stress your married life anymore than need be- trust me. My sister is going through one hell of a married life right now because she thought it would be a great idea to rush into the married life. If it's meant to be and has the strength that you say you do, just wait it out. Scarlet Tears Posted at 1:43 am on Sep. 30, 2008 Well if you have a solid relationship and you have money problems there wont be any harm in waiting. Beside is worst comes to worst if your not married then no doubt it would have happened in marriage and this way it'll be less messy. So just wait you'll be fine. doTHEchickenDANCE Posted at 1:38 am on Sep. 30, 2008 I think you guys should wait, its only been 6 months and as you said you guys cant get enough of eachother, but thats probly just still a bit of the puppy love phase. Whats the problem in waiting? berrycuda Posted at 1:30 am on Sep. 30, 2008 I agree with him you should both wait, if your love is true and no doubt is then waiting for the proper time would be the best answer. Everyone would respect your decision to wait as well, my suggestion is to make your plans to be married with an engagement to last until your both settled whats the hurry. TheAntiBarbie Posted at 1:26 am on Sep. 30, 2008 If you're worried that you might be tempted by other things, that's a good sign that you need to wait. JustWannaReadStuff Posted at 1:26 am on Sep. 30, 2008 Quote: from smashley at 4:21 am on Sep. 30, 2008 my boyfriend and i have been together for a year now, and have been talking about marriage for 6 months. we cannot get enough of eachother and are very dynamic together. we are both pentacostal christians and really value the commitment of traditional(lifelong) marriage. he has told me that he would do anything to marry me right now, he has even proposed(unoffically) with a promise ring. the only problem is we are both just starting college. i live with my parents and his mom is letting him landlord her old house(he has roomates). I feel like i want to get married now, but he thinks it would be best to wait because of the money situation. i am worried that we might be tempted by the typical college lifestyle, and seperate as a result. I DO NOT WANT THIS! would it be best for us to be single or married through college? i really need anyone's input. message me if you have good advice. thanks. To be quite honest, if you're afraid you're going to separate due to "typical college style", you're going to go insane during marriage. All 7 previous replies displayed.