Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic the college scene Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from Anonymous at 8:08 pm on Aug. 14, 2008[quote]Everybody already assumes that once I get to college I'm going to drink.  Why?  I don't get it.  "Oh because a lot of people do." "Because you're that type of person."  And my personal favorite, "It's because you easily follow." The last one really hurt me as it came from my boyfriend, and considering we had sex when we did and he has trust issues and is afraid already that something might happen between me and another guy up there it just...it was a horrible statement (he then was quick to apologize as he say it made me upset and how I took it as for him to mean I'm easy sexually as well, but I'm NOT). I'm not the type to drink.  In the past 18 years of my life I've barely had two sips of alcohol....And to be honest, I don't want to, mostly because I'm scared.  Both sides of my family are overwhelmed with alcoholics, and it doesn't take much for my older siblings to get drunk...I don't know my tolerance for it and I don't want to find myself in a position I don't want to be in because of alcohol. Why does everyone assume me going off to college automatically means I'll drink???  :angry: It bothers me to no end.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 8:08 pm on Aug. 14, 2008 Everybody already assumes that once I get to college I'm going to drink.  Why?  I don't get it.  "Oh because a lot of people do." "Because you're that type of person."  And my personal favorite, "It's because you easily follow." The last one really hurt me as it came from my boyfriend, and considering we had sex when we did and he has trust issues and is afraid already that something might happen between me and another guy up there it just...it was a horrible statement (he then was quick to apologize as he say it made me upset and how I took it as for him to mean I'm easy sexually as well, but I'm NOT). I'm not the type to drink.  In the past 18 years of my life I've barely had two sips of alcohol....And to be honest, I don't want to, mostly because I'm scared.  Both sides of my family are overwhelmed with alcoholics, and it doesn't take much for my older siblings to get drunk...I don't know my tolerance for it and I don't want to find myself in a position I don't want to be in because of alcohol. Why does everyone assume me going off to college automatically means I'll drink???   It bothers me to no end.

Replies bryce101 Posted at 7:58 pm on Aug. 20, 2008 Many have said this before you.. and have gone on to begin drinking in college. Sins and Demons Posted at 5:20 am on Aug. 20, 2008 People drinking in college is almost one of those times when you say everyone does it and your right, but that (when i say it) covers that one time you try it. Few people drink to excess but the casul drinking to infrequent drinking happens all the time. Who cares what people think, you have your reasons your not going to drink so dont and then they will go well i guess we were wrong you didnt drink, good day to you. allyllama Posted at 8:14 pm on Aug. 14, 2008 i think its your own decision what you want to make of youself in college. you dont have to drink! thats peer pressure! you do what you think is best for you, becaue it will hopefully be best in the end. PotPom Posted at 8:11 pm on Aug. 14, 2008 yes most people do. but it doesn't mean that you will or have to. some people don't and thats cool. alot of it has to do with freedom, soem people are just now gettign it and so they do all these things that someone who has had the freedom before hand or has no intrest wouldn't even consider. TigressaLynnMae Posted at 8:10 pm on Aug. 14, 2008 I don't get why people think that. I mean, when I got to college, people had STOPPED drinking. More of my friends/peers drank, in primary school, than in college. I don't believe the stereotype that college students drink like that. x jennifer x Posted at 8:10 pm on Aug. 14, 2008 It's college. They will always think that. Most people that go to college, do start drinking. You could be one of the very few that dont, and that's still okay. justbadnews Posted at 8:09 pm on Aug. 14, 2008 you can do whatever the fuck you want. it's your life. don't feel pressured, if you want to drink, you'll drink, if not, you won't. hI jAMES Posted at 8:09 pm on Aug. 14, 2008 Well, I'm going to college (been). I dont care if people think i'm going to drink, because Im going to do it anyway. Skip Posted at 8:08 pm on Aug. 14, 2008 a lot of people do in fact most people do All 9 previous replies displayed.