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Anonymous Posted at 11:22 pm on Feb. 22, 2008
So me and this guy are getting kinda serious.
He knows that I have a past that includes A LOT of drugs.
I told him that I quit and have changed my life around. I just kinda left out that I still do take pain pills and smoke weeds once in a while when my back acts up.
I am willing to completely stop smoking weed, but I don't know if I can completely stop taking pain pills.
Am I wrong for not telling him this? I really think this could affect us having a relationship and I'm worried

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casesensitive30 Posted at 6:43 pm on April 6, 2008
if you tell him, he might give you an ultimatum to stop taking. and you have except that, so when you tell him, you need to be ready to stop.

i know you can get drug treatment locally and try to work on your addiction.. those pills are extremley addictive, and your life would be much better without them once your past the withdrawl phaze.

MushroomSatsujin Posted at 12:15 am on Feb. 23, 2008
Yeah, ones drug influenced, the other isnt. Not necessarily a bad thing
agentxprovocateur Posted at 12:13 am on Feb. 23, 2008
Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 12:12 am on Feb. 23, 2008

Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 12:11 am on Feb. 23, 2008

Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 12:04 am on Feb. 23, 2008

Quote: from 1HotBroadwayChick at 12:02 am on Feb. 23, 2008

Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 11:25 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:22 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

pain pills are fine, he'll be fine with it but quit the weed.
Whats your logic behind that? Addictive and dangerous pills are better than something that has NEVER killed anyone and has a extremely low addiction potential? Nice

   

  NEVER killed anyone before? You might want to check your research on that one. It's killed plenty of people.


Ive done my research. There is not ONE study that shows that it has EVER caused an overdose. It is physically impossible.

 

 It wastes your life away.


So does living  

Yea there's a huge difference b/w living unstoned and living stoned.

MushroomSatsujin Posted at 12:12 am on Feb. 23, 2008
Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 12:11 am on Feb. 23, 2008

Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 12:04 am on Feb. 23, 2008

Quote: from 1HotBroadwayChick at 12:02 am on Feb. 23, 2008

Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 11:25 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:22 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

pain pills are fine, he'll be fine with it but quit the weed.
Whats your logic behind that? Addictive and dangerous pills are better than something that has NEVER killed anyone and has a extremely low addiction potential? Nice

   

 NEVER killed anyone before? You might want to check your research on that one. It's killed plenty of people.


Ive done my research. There is not ONE study that shows that it has EVER caused an overdose. It is physically impossible.

It wastes your life away.


So does living  
agentxprovocateur Posted at 12:11 am on Feb. 23, 2008
Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 12:04 am on Feb. 23, 2008

Quote: from 1HotBroadwayChick at 12:02 am on Feb. 23, 2008

Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 11:25 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:22 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

pain pills are fine, he'll be fine with it but quit the weed.
Whats your logic behind that? Addictive and dangerous pills are better than something that has NEVER killed anyone and has a extremely low addiction potential? Nice

 

NEVER killed anyone before? You might want to check your research on that one. It's killed plenty of people.


Ive done my research. There is not ONE study that shows that it has EVER caused an overdose. It is physically impossible.

It wastes your life away.

MushroomSatsujin Posted at 12:04 am on Feb. 23, 2008
Quote: from 1HotBroadwayChick at 12:02 am on Feb. 23, 2008

Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 11:25 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:22 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

pain pills are fine, he'll be fine with it but quit the weed.
Whats your logic behind that? Addictive and dangerous pills are better than something that has NEVER killed anyone and has a extremely low addiction potential? Nice

 

NEVER killed anyone before? You might want to check your research on that one. It's killed plenty of people.


Ive done my research. There is not ONE study that shows that it has EVER caused an overdose. It is physically impossible.
1HotBroadwayChick Posted at 12:02 am on Feb. 23, 2008
Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 11:25 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:22 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

pain pills are fine, he'll be fine with it but quit the weed.
Whats your logic behind that? Addictive and dangerous pills are better than something that has NEVER killed anyone and has a extremely low addiction potential? Nice

NEVER killed anyone before? You might want to check your research on that one. It's killed plenty of people.

these broken angels Posted at 11:43 pm on Feb. 22, 2008
you need to tell him
Anonymous Posted at 11:40 pm on Feb. 22, 2008
Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 11:37 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from Anonymous at 11:36 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:31 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from Anonymous at 11:29 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

I know I can quit doing it all. I mean for a while there I was using Meth, Weed, and Crack. I have realized what drugs do to people and I know I need to stop Weed and Pills now. I just start to feel so guilty about not telling him yet and it makes me want to use.

  well you said he knows about your history and if you're willing to stop, then there obviously shouldn't be a problem.


 

 I know I just feel so guilty! I mean I don't want to screw things up. Plus it doesn't help that the people I live with are into drugs (and don't say move because I currently can't).


If you feel so guilty, TELL HIM!
If he loves you, he'll help you

I know, it's just that he has so many problems lately of his own that I don't want to pile this on with them.
I just wish I could make it all go away and never had started!
Even talking about all this just makes me wish I had a handful of pills and a joint!!!

MushroomSatsujin Posted at 11:37 pm on Feb. 22, 2008
Quote: from Anonymous at 11:36 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:31 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from Anonymous at 11:29 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

I know I can quit doing it all.  I mean for a while there I was using Meth, Weed, and Crack.  I have realized what drugs do to people and I know I need to stop Weed and Pills now.  I just start to feel so guilty about not telling him yet and it makes me want to use.
 

 well you said he knows about your history and if you're willing to stop, then there obviously shouldn't be a problem.


I know I just feel so guilty! I mean I don't want to screw things up. Plus it doesn't help that the people I live with are into drugs (and don't say move because I currently can't).


If you feel so guilty, TELL HIM!
If he loves you, he'll help you
Anonymous Posted at 11:36 pm on Feb. 22, 2008
Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:31 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from Anonymous at 11:29 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

I know I can quit doing it all. I mean for a while there I was using Meth, Weed, and Crack. I have realized what drugs do to people and I know I need to stop Weed and Pills now. I just start to feel so guilty about not telling him yet and it makes me want to use.

well you said he knows about your history and if you're willing to stop, then there obviously shouldn't be a problem.


I know I just feel so guilty! I mean I don't want to screw things up. Plus it doesn't help that the people I live with are into drugs (and don't say move because I currently can't).

MushroomSatsujin Posted at 11:35 pm on Feb. 22, 2008
Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:30 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 11:28 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:27 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 11:25 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:22 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

pain pills are fine, he'll be fine with it but quit the weed.
Whats your logic behind that? Addictive and dangerous pills are better than something that has NEVER killed anyone and has a extremely low addiction potential? Nice

   

 gateway drug dude


Bullshit dude. If you want a real gateway drug, try caffeine or alcohol.

 
I am anti-caffeine, anti-alcohol, anti-drug. psh, all of it is bad.  If she is taking too much of something, it's bad.


Straight-edge?

And yes, too much of anything is bad

agentxprovocateur Posted at 11:31 pm on Feb. 22, 2008
Quote: from Anonymous at 11:29 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

I know I can quit doing it all.  I mean for a while there I was using Meth, Weed, and Crack.  I have realized what drugs do to people and I know I need to stop Weed and Pills now.  I just start to feel so guilty about not telling him yet and it makes me want to use.

well you said he knows about your history and if you're willing to stop, then there obviously shouldn't be a problem.

agentxprovocateur Posted at 11:30 pm on Feb. 22, 2008
Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 11:28 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:27 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 11:25 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:22 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

pain pills are fine, he'll be fine with it but quit the weed.
Whats your logic behind that? Addictive and dangerous pills are better than something that has NEVER killed anyone and has a extremely low addiction potential? Nice

 

gateway drug dude


Bullshit dude. If you want a real gateway drug, try caffeine or alcohol.


I am anti-caffeine, anti-alcohol, anti-drug. psh, all of it is bad.  If she is taking too much of something, it's bad.

AcidSilence Posted at 11:30 pm on Feb. 22, 2008
Quote: from Breakboy at 11:26 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 11:25 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:22 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

pain pills are fine, he'll be fine with it but quit the weed.
Whats your logic behind that? Addictive and dangerous pills are better than something that has NEVER killed anyone and has a extremely low addiction potential? Nice

Finally, something I agree with you on.


qft

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