Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic didn't even get an easy job... :'( Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]Maxxie[/m] at 10:15 am on July 5, 2008[quote]You have to settle for a ''shit'' job untill you find a ''good'' job. That's life, you better get used to it.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post dragonking Posted at 10:12 am on July 5, 2008 I have been looking for a job seriously since March of this year.  I had an internship which didn't go well (boss was a liar), a job that was part time and I didn't get enough work (if it was full time all year round that would have been great!), and another job which was way to much work for such a small amount of money (it really drained me and sucked even more enjoyment out of life than what already has been).  I had some interviews over this time and one job I could get but isn't good with all the travel (which I wouldn't be reimbursed for, long hours, and the days aren't good and it would be like I am self employed yet working for a company).   I applied to a Lowe's that's being built near me and today I got in the mail that they aren't hiring me but keeping my application on file.  The last time I spoke to a woman on the phone there she asked why did I change my application and I said I need a job and it's close to home.  She asked where I am working now and I told her I don't have a job now.   I haven't been hired for this easy cashier job.  I don't know what I am going to do.  I am angry and so upset now.  It's been 4 months of looking a lot and in January and February I looked but not as hard.  So for 6 months I haven't been able to get anything that's good or even okay.   I don't know what I am going to do.  What do I have to be a criminal to make money to afford to pay things?  This really has made me feel depressed and I enjoy very few things in life anymore.  My Dad and I argue about me getting a job which I look and look but it hasn't come to much.  I wish I could choose the job I need and would like or not mind doing.  I think there may not be enough jobs out there or most want experience.  How are you supposed to get experience if you can't get one in the first place?!  Thank God that my Mom cared for me and my Dad does. This is more of venting because you can't really get me a job.  I wish someone could because I look and look and look.

Replies Another Chance Posted at 3:30 am on July 8, 2008 I feel your pain my friend. I truly feel your pain and frustration. Al Legator Posted at 10:40 am on July 5, 2008 Quote: from maxxie at 10:15 am on July 5, 2008 You have to settle for a ''shit'' job untill you find a ''good'' job. That's life, you better get used to it. That's usually the case. First, all that stuff in the past- forget about why this one didn't work out or that one wasn't worth it. Your future employers don't care about why. YOu don't need to carry that around with you because it won't help you. You may have to settle for a joe-job and stick with it until you can get a better paying or better located job. It's much easier to find a job when you already have one.  It's  a good answer for instance that you needed a job closer to you, but when hiring,(when it happens) they may still choose someone who has a bit of experience and still lives furher away. They don't care where you live as long as you show up on time. Whne you get a joe-job, do it cheerfully and well, even if you don't feel that wy inside. WHy? You wnat them as a reference and a manager can sink or float yoru next job with a comment. I hire 4- 6 students a year under a co-op program so I interview about 120 college students a year. Frankly msot of them coudl do the job because it's not that hard. I look for peopel that are freindly and enthusiastic. I can spot BS a mile away (recognising that everyone "pads" their experience and qualifications a bit at that age), so be straight and honest. That means you say that "I found the extra time to get to work when I worked across town took too much from my time at school and home.", not " I didn't like working so far away". What's the difference, even though I said above that an employer doesn't care where you live? It's the attitude: The extra time took you away form something positive like school and home, vs, you just didn't like it. Let's say you want a Lowes job in the electrical area. Buy a book of your local electrical codes (simplified- Lowes probably sells one) Or borrow for the public library. learn what you can from it so you can talk to - even ask to talk to the electrical Dept manager. Or go up to the Lowes for 2 hours once a week and hang around different depts, talk to the staff (try to choose a non-busy time of week/day) ...ask their names, get to know them and what they do/sell. "Networking" even works with joe-jobs. In fact, most jobs are gotten- or at least gotten access to - because of who , not what, you know. In the meantime, do summer jobs around your  neighbourhood for a bit of money but also to build up references. Join at least one volunteer group. Whne I interview I seldom bother with how good their grades are (because I work at a University, those get included) but I want to know the kind of person I'll be working with the next while. Personality is good, they get involved in their community (volunteerism) and they like to do certain sports or hobbies. I hope some of this is helpful. Keep trying, but don't let what you see as failure to keep your spirits down- that shows up too in an interview.Keep your hair clean and combed and wear good clothes. Why? You will potentially be representing that company to all their customers and the employer wants you to represent them well. And that brings me to my last point I guess.  Employment is a two way street- yes, it's important for you to have a job for yoru sake. Employers know that of course but don't care as much as the other "side of the street"...the most important thing for them is "What can YOU do for THEM?" death2fairytales Posted at 10:38 am on July 5, 2008 Quote: from dragonking at 1:24 pm on July 5, 2008 Quote: from maxxie at 1:15 pm on July 5, 2008 You have to settle for a ''shit'' job untill you find a ''good'' job. That's life, you better get used to it. I am having trouble even getting that...  I applied to a Lowes to be a cashier and didn't get that. it seems that when you had a job you quit cuz it drained you. Now you don't have a job. Next time you have a job maybe you should wait until you actually get another job before quiting. dragonking Posted at 10:24 am on July 5, 2008 Quote: from maxxie at 1:15 pm on July 5, 2008 You have to settle for a ''shit'' job untill you find a ''good'' job. That's life, you better get used to it. I am having trouble even getting that...  I applied to a Lowes to be a cashier and didn't get that. Maxxie Posted at 10:15 am on July 5, 2008 You have to settle for a ''shit'' job untill you find a ''good'' job. That's life, you better get used to it. All 5 previous replies displayed.