Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic can you help me with my fear of getting a girlfriend. Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]decay[/m] at 11:43 pm on Oct. 16, 2008[quote]im sitting here in my garage listening to some music and thinking about today. i gave up the perfect opportunity to get a girls number on the last day of class, all because i have this fear. i dont know where it comes from.I am attractive, confident, and i can talk to girls perfectly fine up until i figure out that i like them or they like me. its at this point that my mind flips a switch and I become nervous, have panic attacks, and will make up any stupid reason not to continue any type of relationship from there. if i do decide to, i am constantly nervous around them and cannot function normally, ESPECIALLY when it comes to eating something. i will feel like puking, and make the scene awkward, and i believe this is where a lot of the initial anxiety comes from because i know that if a relationship does start, we are bound to have to eat together at some point. I have had this feeling ever since i began high school. i have had a handful of girlfriends during this time, i dont know how, but they never seemed t last.. More recently i believe i have been feeling like this even More is because i was recently diagnosed with HPV. since then i have hated myself, been depressed, and fearful of starting anything up with a girl because there is a Huge chance of rejection now.... :music: [/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post decay Posted at 11:43 pm on Oct. 16, 2008 im sitting here in my garage listening to some music and thinking about today. i gave up the perfect opportunity to get a girls number on the last day of class, all because i have this fear. i dont know where it comes from.I am attractive, confident, and i can talk to girls perfectly fine up until i figure out that i like them or they like me. its at this point that my mind flips a switch and I become nervous, have panic attacks, and will make up any stupid reason not to continue any type of relationship from there. if i do decide to, i am constantly nervous around them and cannot function normally, ESPECIALLY when it comes to eating something. i will feel like puking, and make the scene awkward, and i believe this is where a lot of the initial anxiety comes from because i know that if a relationship does start, we are bound to have to eat together at some point. I have had this feeling ever since i began high school. i have had a handful of girlfriends during this time, i dont know how, but they never seemed t last.. More recently i believe i have been feeling like this even More is because i was recently diagnosed with HPV. since then i have hated myself, been depressed, and fearful of starting anything up with a girl because there is a Huge chance of rejection now....

Replies Solitare142 Posted at 12:16 am on Oct. 17, 2008 The only way to change is to start getting out there and trying to "get over it" meaning, try your  best to over come it. Honestly, if a girl's not going to take the time to try, she's not going to be worth it. PM me if you want, I should be online for a bit. decay Posted at 11:55 pm on Oct. 16, 2008 but how to I start to make things change right now? I cant wait any longer, this is killing me... iceman89 Posted at 11:48 pm on Oct. 16, 2008 dotn worry, I was like that, but things change when you take sthing less serious then, just relax and you will fingure out later iamgodzilla Posted at 11:45 pm on Oct. 16, 2008 go for it anyway. All 4 previous replies displayed.