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xalyndx Posted at 10:54 pm on Mar. 12, 2008
how do you do it? i still feel like mommys little angel. they've completely robbed me of my individuality. im in community fucking college it's so stupid. what should i do, get a girlfriend? do drugs, join a gang, be a rebel? wHAT??

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wingedmisery Posted at 2:59 pm on Mar. 25, 2008
Rebelling isn't going to do anything except get you in trouble. Be responsible, show your parents you can be your own person without getting into trouble. If you get into trouble, they are just going to try to control you and you are going to rebel more and it will be a vicious circle
TheAntiBarbie Posted at 1:42 am on Mar. 13, 2008
Drugs and gangs are not the way to go. Find something productive or at the very least not harmful that you can do away from your parents.

Anyway you sound like one who doesn't want something else defining them, and gangs would definitely do that. As would drugs to some extent.

xdreaxbabyx Posted at 11:32 pm on Mar. 12, 2008
aha sounds like my ma..shes controling the fuck outa me.....i always been that rebel girl..n my momma always thought i was a good girll...now she blames it on school*bad infkuences r sumshit* so i havent been in school n i been gettin fucked up alot more..cuz shes crazyy
MushroomSatsujin Posted at 11:09 pm on Mar. 12, 2008
Quote: from Aristocrat at 11:00 pm on Mar. 12, 2008

Quote: from Shyloh at 10:55 pm on Mar. 12, 2008

Drugs and sex.

 
Then later come back to mommy and papa cry over there shoulder after ruin your health perhaps with some STD or other cancer they have fro drug users.  

What is the benefit of that?  

Kids/young adults say no to drugs and sex and stay at school for the love of God and you will be in the safe hands.  

Till then stay pure till next time!


No way! You need to convert to satanism and shoot heroin!!!
xalyndx Posted at 11:07 pm on Mar. 12, 2008
Quote: from Chevy Jackson at 10:57 pm on Mar. 12, 2008

take up stencil graffiti. its easy to learn, and relatively easy for "artistically challenged" people to pick up. plus, it's illegal, for the most part, but its not potentially detrimental to your health like joining a gang or doing drugs.

that sounds pretty cool! cops are dicks around here though. so i guess drugs and sex are out of the question...even though i am on prescription drugs...and i have porn. but still.

Aristocrat Posted at 11:00 pm on Mar. 12, 2008
Quote: from Shyloh at 10:55 pm on Mar. 12, 2008

Drugs and sex.


Then later come back to mommy and papa cry over there shoulder after ruin your health perhaps with some STD or other cancer they have fro drug users.

What is the benefit of that?

Kids/young adults say no to drugs and sex and stay at school for the love of God and you will be in the safe hands.

Till then stay pure till next time!

Stand Up Posted at 10:58 pm on Mar. 12, 2008
First of all. You're what you make.. Your parents didn't made what you're, they might had some influence, but not 100%, so if you think your parents mad your identity, that's probably cuz you let them do it.
PimpMyHoes Posted at 10:58 pm on Mar. 12, 2008
Maybe get a job and save up to move out?
MushroomSatsujin Posted at 10:58 pm on Mar. 12, 2008
Quote: from Shyloh at 10:55 pm on Mar. 12, 2008

Drugs and sex.
Yup. Best thing you can do
Chevy Jackson Posted at 10:57 pm on Mar. 12, 2008
take up stencil graffiti. its easy to learn, and relatively easy for "artistically challenged" people to pick up. plus, it's illegal, for the most part, but its not potentially detrimental to your health like joining a gang or doing drugs.
rth Posted at 10:57 pm on Mar. 12, 2008
If you haven't moved out yet, you could try that. Another one is just staying out past curfew, or... not worrying about what they view you as? :(
Sorry I'm not much an expert.
Shyloh Posted at 10:55 pm on Mar. 12, 2008
Drugs and sex.
lizht45 Posted at 10:55 pm on Mar. 12, 2008
Quote: from xalyndx at 10:54 pm on Mar. 12, 2008

how do you do it? i still feel like mommys little angel. they've completely robbed me of my individuality. im in community fucking college it's so stupid. what should i do, get a girlfriend? do drugs, join a gang, be a rebel? wHAT??

do you have a job? show them your responsible and grown up.

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