Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Two questions? cherry popped? and how to make being on top less painfu Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]assman27[/m] at 7:16 pm on June 30, 2008[quote]ill show u. xx[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 7:15 pm on June 30, 2008 OK so I am sure this has been posted before but i'm to lazy to search. I also think I probabaly know the answer but a 2nd opinion would be nice. My boyfriend and I have been having sex for  over a year.  he's always on top. But he wants me on top so the odd time I try it hurts like a bitch. I can't even explain it. and this in turn it is actually putting strain on our relationship he's always complaining about it but I wont go on top cuz it hurts to much and its just not a good situation. So I was talking to my friend about it ( weird eh) and he said that maybe I didn't "pop my cherry" (hymen. or however its spelt) I don't think that is possible because we have been having sex for so long and what not Also is there anyway for me to be on top without it hurting. I hate the idea of me being on top but its only fair right?? and if it wouldn't hurt I wouldn't mind so much. even if I don't feel anything at all it would keep him happy. help?

Replies marissa16 Posted at 8:57 pm on July 6, 2008 i dont have much to tell you because i have never had a boyfriend and im still a virgin crazy4you Posted at 7:26 pm on June 30, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 7:23 pm on June 30, 2008 Quote: from crazy4you at 10:23 pm on June 30, 2008 Try doggy style instead, that's a lot less painful and awkward and it feels great.   we do... its one of my favorites oh okay, that's my favorite too. i don't know then. just tell him you're not comfortable with it. surprise him with something new! :) Anonymous Posted at 7:23 pm on June 30, 2008 Quote: from crazy4you at 10:23 pm on June 30, 2008 Try doggy style instead, that's a lot less painful and awkward and it feels great. we do... its one of my favorites poet01 Posted at 7:23 pm on June 30, 2008 u could b on top but backwords. like ur ass facin his face. i dunno, never tryed it but ive heard bout it crazy4you Posted at 7:23 pm on June 30, 2008 Try doggy style instead, that's a lot less painful and awkward and it feels great. PinkLotus Posted at 7:21 pm on June 30, 2008 You could try lubrication and such. I am not sure if it would help though. Lulu Nobody Posted at 7:19 pm on June 30, 2008 Are you sitting up straight or do you lean over him a little? I find that if I sit up straight (back straight) with my boyfriend with myself on top that it hurts, but if I lean forward it goes less deep and is more comfortable. Try leaning forward, almost as if laying on top of him once he penetrates, you may find it more comfortable. If it's painful even then, then I'm not sure what to tell you. On top probably just doesn't work for you and he'll have to understand that. aGIRLunknown Posted at 7:17 pm on June 30, 2008 yeah go slow and don't go all the way in. (i like the pain of being on top but I rather be on the bottom) HuffleHaire Posted at 7:16 pm on June 30, 2008 Your boyfriend is a jerk. Maybe you need to try a different position. assman27 Posted at 7:16 pm on June 30, 2008 ill show u. xx All 10 previous replies displayed.