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Lustx Posted at 8:56 pm on Aug. 12, 2008
Last night I lost my virginity to boyfriend... I didn't really want to do it but he made me do it anyway... all I can say about it is that it really hurt a lot and he was using his body weight to pin me to bed the whole time... then when he ejaculated and withdrew, I saw his penis didn't have a condom on it and I said "You didn't even use a condom you jackass?" and he just dumbly answered "Um, no" And then I just gathered up my clothes and left his house without another word...

We have been together since January of this year but I am really scared because I only turned 13 just over a week ago and he is 21 now... my dad doesn't even know about our relationship and I'm really scared to tell him, and I don't know where I can get a pregnancy or STD test... please help me, I'm absolutely terrified and in shock and panic right now...

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Zlog Posted at 1:12 am on Aug. 14, 2008
Man chicks dont get it. Just make yourself puke or shit on the guy and you'll be fine no way he'll keep going.
daveythewavey19 Posted at 3:07 pm on Aug. 13, 2008
i see what you did there troll
Addicted 2 Candy Posted at 2:33 pm on Aug. 13, 2008
if he pinned u down then he raped u..tell someone
TigressaLynnMae Posted at 1:04 pm on Aug. 13, 2008
That seems quite like a common rape situation.
Poisonetta Posted at 11:50 am on Aug. 13, 2008
Its rape dear. Tell your parents, break it off with him and call the police. I cannot even begin to comprehend a 13 year old with a 21 year old...
Greater than Angels Posted at 9:18 pm on Aug. 12, 2008
Okay sweetie, you need to do three things here:

a) Tell you father

b) Call the police

c) Get medical attention

NOW.

I am not going to question how you got involved with this boy in the first place, because that is irrelevant, but 13 and 21 is a MASSIVE age difference - you cannot let him get away with this. Taking advantage of someone as young as yourself, and hurting them this way, is a very serious crime. He is physically and legally an adult and he knows perfectly well that what he did to you was wrong.

If your father really loves and cares about you, he will be more concerned about getting you medical attention and putting the man who hurt his daughter behind bars than the fact that you were seeing someone you probably should not have been hanging around with. Please tell him and the police and get yourself to a hospital ASAP.

Best wishes - keep us updated.

CaliKevin Posted at 9:06 pm on Aug. 12, 2008
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jesreason Posted at 9:04 pm on Aug. 12, 2008
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exxys Posted at 9:04 pm on Aug. 12, 2008
Ok, that guy is definatly what we like to call a pedophile.  He took something really special from you, and he has no right to do that.  You should lock that bastard up.  It's not your fault, sweetie, he took advantage of you!
CaliKevin Posted at 9:04 pm on Aug. 12, 2008
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nickiiROCKETSHIP Posted at 9:03 pm on Aug. 12, 2008
Dude that's rape.
Not even statutory since you didn't want it.
Plus the fact that he's legally an adult.

CALL THE COPS! OR TELL YOUR PARENTS!

Lustx Posted at 9:03 pm on Aug. 12, 2008
I have been having regular periods since I was 11 now which is why I'm worried... I'll go through the phonebook to see if there are any clinics close to where I live, I just really hope I don't need to be a certain age or parental consent to get tests.. thank you everyone
jesreason Posted at 9:03 pm on Aug. 12, 2008
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muffin666 Posted at 9:03 pm on Aug. 12, 2008
PEDOPHILIA!!!!
Holy crap you're a complete idiot and that's all.
Idiot -.-
BeautifulxLiar Posted at 9:03 pm on Aug. 12, 2008
Quote: from iwashere85 at 11:58 pm on Aug. 12, 2008

Did you say no?  
Did he actually force you?
This screams rape to me...  

Are you okay, first of all? Notice any changes?  

   

I'm sorry to hear this. I suggest contacting Planned Parenthood.



pretty sweet advice, i agree

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