At first, stimulation of my clit was always too intense for me, whether it was a guy going down, or the faucet running in the tub. I used to twitch, my leg muscles would tighten and it was unbearable. But some how, magically, I got used to it! My friends said the same thing, after a while you stop twitching, maybe it's an age thing or experience thing (like that recent post said, you develop the ability with age).
Once I learned to stop twitching, the tub became my best friend. I put the water on warm, and I pull up on the shower stick on the faucet head (I don't know if that makes sense)... but it intensifies the stream of water a bit but not enough to turn on the shower. This water shouldn't be too fast, but just comfortable when it directly hits your clit. (Ok, this is kind of racey, but continuing, lol!) So start rocking yourself back and fourth, up and down, whatever feels good and turns you on under that running water. Eventually, I start to get this aching feeling in my clit, like "horniness" I guess, and you want more. So I keep on doing that, getting all hot and into it, it's feeling great!!! But then eventually, my clit goes super sensitive, and I don't know what to do! Continuing is too intense, but I feel like I'm almost there. I researched it a bit, and I think I'm at the end of the "plateau phase" in the "sexual response cycle" (look it up, intriguing) where the clit retracts to avoid further stimulation. So this is where I am stuck... do I have to stick something in there (tried that, no dice), stop and start again... I don't know! But this water things works like a charm for me, gets me the farthest!
Any help anyone on what to do next? lol, try it out girls, tell me what you think and if you have any success. Best of luck ocdbabe, and please please tell me if you eventually figure it out, lol, so damn frustrated, and I'm sure you feel the same, haha! Best of luck! :D
Sad face. I think I just can't. I've been looking it up and read that a lot of girls orgasm and don't even know it because it's so small when they first start. Be it masturbation-my newest hobby =]-or a boy, I just can't get it. I get to the point where I can't take it anymore, I feel like I will exploe, but nothing happens. That feeling just continues. =[ Am I just never going to orgasm?
Well you just explained it to yourself... Many girls cant orgasm to begin with. They just dont have the ability.
Then secondly, even if a woman does have the ability, she doesnt gain it until mid 20's...
Gl with that.
Quote: from Mein Alias at 12:49 am on Jan. 14, 2009 Ur doing it wrong. I'm prety sure I'm doing it right. It's a bit self explanatory. Not much to mess up on.
Ur doing it wrong.
This is actually untrue. It takes time to figure out what you like, to figure out how to get yourself over the edge. There are a ton of ways to make yourself come.
You need to buy yourself a vibrator. Really. It is pretty much the easiest way to orgasm ever. In the mean time keep practicing and just enjoy yourself- don't put too much emphasis on the orgasm part because chances are you can and will orgasm but stressing out about it is not going to help.
Really. It is pretty much the easiest way to orgasm ever. In the mean time keep practicing and just enjoy yourself- don't put too much emphasis on the orgasm part because chances are you can and will orgasm but stressing out about it is not going to help.
Okay thank you. =] I've thought about it, but it just seems dirty...Although, I did think masturbating was dirty until like...a week ago. HAah
You need a man to do it for you. Simple as that.
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