Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic My boyfriend thinks i am ridiculous Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]HollywoodTrashley[/m] at 11:54 am on July 2, 2009[quote]for not having sex with him (except once) after 6 months. i am 23 and he is 29. i don't want to because we are not married. he might knock me up and dump me.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post HollywoodTrashley Posted at 11:54 am on July 2, 2009 for not having sex with him (except once) after 6 months. i am 23 and he is 29. i don't want to because we are not married. he might knock me up and dump me.

Replies LvL Posted at 5:50 pm on July 14, 2009 No offence but you do sound silly, I mean getting worried of getting knocked up and dumped? From that statement I guess you've had bad experiance in relations. Or someone close to you that you probaly loved lied to you. emariehawk Posted at 10:12 am on July 3, 2009 Quote: from DaisyMontana at 11:57 am on July 2, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 11:56 am on July 2, 2009 Quote: from DaisyMontana at 11:54 am on July 2, 2009 You're stupid    Says the whore. Yes haha agreed! TigressaLynnMae Posted at 9:32 am on July 3, 2009 Personally I hate waiting on a girl. Then you don't deserve a girlfriend. She should want sex just as much as I want it. And what if she does not? If you love her, you will stuff your dick deep into your underwear, and wait. Because you love her. When she's ready, okay, go for it. Fuck her brains out. But you have to wait. She should have to wait if it were you in her shoes, also. Sex is two sided, honey. So if I have sex with someone on the side, she can't get mad, because how is it cheating if she wont give in? It is cheating. She shouldn't ahve to do anything she does not want to, and that includes sex. It is not a 'favor'. It is an intimate act. Goddess, I hate pigs like you. You're the reason I dislike sex. Because I've been in a situation with a man like you, and he pretty much forced me into it, when I was not ready. And I've been scarred, since then. Is that what you want? To hurt your girls? Sexless relationships are more friendships than anything. No, they aren't. I was with my guy 8 years (on and off), and we never had sex. But we loved each other, far more than on a friendship level. We didn't need sex to prove our love, nor did we want sex, because it could have easily fucked up our love. Goddess, young twits like you need therapy, or something. Because yes sex is a want, not a need. But at the same time, it's a want I'm not going to give up. I get horny everyday, I can control my hormones, but it's a tease to control them longer than 6 months. If she doesn't want sex with me after 6 months, then don't be suprised if I find sex elsewhere. So, yo'ud cheat on someone you loved? Go fuck a tree, you manwhore. That's sick. You can stuff your dick for a few months to a year, without any problems. I'm willing to wait for a girl because I love her, but I'm not waiting years on her. If she loves me, she'll meet me halfway. That is not how love works, you twat. You're apparently young, naive, and inexperienced, because you know NOTHING. A man should be willing to wait, forever. Just as the woman should, if it's the man putting off sex. Love is about sacrifice, and sex is about both partner's wants/willingess, not one over the other. But if you're in a relationship, there's no reason why she can't give in after 6 months. Maybe after 6 months, she's still not ready. Are you going to fucking try and rape her, then? I know it's going to take me and my current beaux at least a year for anything sexual to happen between us, because that is my number. 7 months to a year. And guess what? He's okay with waiting. He waited two years, with his last girlfriend. Imagine that; A man with a dick, but able to stuff it in his pants for love. If I go a week without masturbation I'm already irritable. It's like smoking, drinking, and stuff like that. It's not a need, but a want, sex  is the same thing. That's called 'an addiction', honey. If you cannot go more than a week without masturbation, without getting a bit cranky, there's a problem. I'm tired of guys always being the asshole, but yet girls can be a bitch and make us wait years for sex? It's not about 'bitching and wiating'. It's about 'when she's ready'. YOU HAVE TO WAIT UNTIL SHE (Or he, dpeending) is ready. NO QUESTIONS> Sex should be something you want to do. You forgot to add, "When the person is ready", at the end. Because it should be just that; Both partners, willing and ready. Not something you are forcing someone to wait Oh, but it can be something you force someone to do? That's bullshit. Well guess what, after 6 months I waited long enough, now if you love me, you'll meet me 50/50. That is not love. How old are you? 12? Because that's what it sounds like, you idiot child Tuski Posted at 11:27 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from SportbikeFreakR6 at 8:52 pm on July 2, 2009 Personally I hate waiting on a girl. She should want sex just as much as I want it. I have a hard time waiting any longer than 2 months, but if I was put in a situation like this, 6 months would probally be the limit. I do not believe in waiting until you're married. That is something I will just not do period. If she can't understand that, then we aren't sexually compatible. So if I have sex with someone on the side, she can't get mad, because how is it cheating if she wont give in? Sexless relationships are more friendships than anything. And if a girl wont give it up for years and makes me wait until marriage, then we are better off being friends. Because yes sex is a want, not a need. But at the same time, it's a want I'm not going to give up. I get horny everyday, I can control my hormones, but it's a tease to control them longer than 6 months. If she doesn't want sex with me after 6 months, then don't be suprised if I find sex elsewhere. I'm willing to wait for a girl because I love her, but I'm not waiting years on her. If she loves me, she'll meet me halfway. If I wait 6 months atleast, she can atleast give in. If she can't then we might as well be friends. Because I don't have sex with friends, I have sex with girls I really care about. Going out and having one night stands, hiring prostitutes, or friends with benefits are all wrong and gross. But if you're in a relationship, there's no reason why she can't give in after 6 months. Sex is a want that I'm not going to live without because some girl is forcing me to wait. No thanks. If I go a week without masturbation I'm already irritable. It's like smoking, drinking, and stuff like that. It's not a need, but a want, sex  is the same thing. It's a want I wont give up. I expect my girl to want it as much as I do. I'm tired of guys always being the asshole, but yet girls can be a bitch and make us wait years for sex? A girl who makes her boyfriend wait like that must hate sex. I want a girl who likes sex. Sex should be something you want to do. Not something you are forcing someone to wait. It's always "If you love me, you'll wait." Well guess what, after 6 months I waited long enough, now if you love me, you'll meet me 50/50. this thread just got owned anongirl Posted at 11:22 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from BrittBee at 3:04 pm on July 2, 2009 You're not ridiculous, you have a right to want to wait until marraige. But being that HE is almost 30, sex is like a basic need pretty much. He thinks you're ridiculous because he doesn't care about sex before marriage. If he's been with you for 6 months though, he won't just dump you because you put out for him. He would have given up a long time ago. If you're only holding off because you're worried about getting pregnant, then get on the pill, use condoms, AND have him pull out still. But if it really means something to you to hold off then don't do it. Don't be surprised though if he dumps you because you WON'T have sex with him. i couldnt have said it better myself =] ApatheticKiller Posted at 8:59 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from SportbikeFreakR6 at 8:52 pm on July 2, 2009 Personally I hate waiting on a girl. She should want sex just as much as I want it. I have a hard time waiting any longer than 2 months, but if I was put in a situation like this, 6 months would probally be the limit. I do not believe in waiting until you're married. That is something I will just not do period. If she can't understand that, then we aren't sexually compatible. So if I have sex with someone on the side, she can't get mad, because how is it cheating if she wont give in? Sexless relationships are more friendships than anything. And if a girl wont give it up for years and makes me wait until marriage, then we are better off being friends. Because yes sex is a want, not a need. But at the same time, it's a want I'm not going to give up. I get horny everyday, I can control my hormones, but it's a tease to control them longer than 6 months. If she doesn't want sex with me after 6 months, then don't be suprised if I find sex elsewhere. I'm willing to wait for a girl because I love her, but I'm not waiting years on her. If she loves me, she'll meet me halfway. If I wait 6 months atleast, she can atleast give in. If she can't then we might as well be friends. Because I don't have sex with friends, I have sex with girls I really care about. Going out and having one night stands, hiring prostitutes, or friends with benefits are all wrong and gross. But if you're in a relationship, there's no reason why she can't give in after 6 months. Sex is a want that I'm not going to live without because some girl is forcing me to wait. No thanks. If I go a week without masturbation I'm already irritable. It's like smoking, drinking, and stuff like that. It's not a need, but a want, sex  is the same thing. It's a want I wont give up. I expect my girl to want it as much as I do. I'm tired of guys always being the asshole, but yet girls can be a bitch and make us wait years for sex? A girl who makes her boyfriend wait like that must hate sex. I want a girl who likes sex. Sex should be something you want to do. Not something you are forcing someone to wait. It's always "If you love me, you'll wait." Well guess what, after 6 months I waited long enough, now if you love me, you'll meet me 50/50. Um, yeah you're right, you wouldn't be compatible...but not sexually imcompatible, your incompatible in your values.  And, it's almost certainly not because the girl doesn't want sex.  Girls want to have sex too, they get horny.  But some, including this one it seems, have certain values like holding off until marriage.  So if you don't value that and you see a girl waiting as an insult to you, then you're absolutely right...your not compatible. SportbikeFreakR6 Posted at 8:52 pm on July 2, 2009 Personally I hate waiting on a girl. She should want sex just as much as I want it. I have a hard time waiting any longer than 2 months, but if I was put in a situation like this, 6 months would probally be the limit. I do not believe in waiting until you're married. That is something I will just not do period. If she can't understand that, then we aren't sexually compatible. So if I have sex with someone on the side, she can't get mad, because how is it cheating if she wont give in? Sexless relationships are more friendships than anything. And if a girl wont give it up for years and makes me wait until marriage, then we are better off being friends. Because yes sex is a want, not a need. But at the same time, it's a want I'm not going to give up. I get horny everyday, I can control my hormones, but it's a tease to control them longer than 6 months. If she doesn't want sex with me after 6 months, then don't be suprised if I find sex elsewhere. I'm willing to wait for a girl because I love her,  but I'm not waiting years on her. If she loves me, she'll meet me halfway. If I wait 6 months atleast, she can atleast give in. If she can't then we might as well be friends. Because I don't have sex with friends, I have sex with girls I really care about. Going out and having one night stands, hiring prostitutes, or friends with benefits are all wrong and gross. But if you're in a relationship, there's no reason why she can't give in after 6 months. Sex is a want that I'm not going to live without because some girl is forcing me to wait. No thanks. If I go a week without masturbation I'm already irritable. It's like smoking, drinking, and stuff like that. It's not a need, but a want, sex is the same thing. It's a want I wont give up. I expect my girl to want it as much as I do. I'm tired of guys always being the asshole, but yet girls can be a bitch and make us wait years for sex? A girl who makes her boyfriend wait like that must hate sex. I want a girl who likes sex. Sex should be something you want to do. Not something you are forcing someone to wait. It's always "If you love me, you'll wait." Well guess what, after 6 months I waited long enough, now if you love me, you'll meet me 50/50. Pinkandpretty Posted at 8:38 pm on July 2, 2009 Wow you're fuckin stupid. If I was that guy I would be getting pissed too! TigressaLynnMae Posted at 8:27 pm on July 2, 2009 Men are sexual beings Men can control themselves, just as much as women. Sex is a two way street. If one doesn't want to fuck/make love/have sex, then there's not going to be a fucking/love making/sexing. You have to wait until your partner is ready. And if you're not willing to wait, then it's not worth waiting for via the other partner. Honestly two months was the longest I was willing to wait for someone. If sex isn't going to be some facet of the relationship SOME point down the line, to me it isn't really worth it. Two months? Good lord. That's a bit sickening. To me. We're men with needs Wants, love. Sex is not a need. sex is like a basic need pretty much God, I hate stupid teenagers with hormones. tell me again Posted at 5:54 pm on July 2, 2009 Rofl except once. YOU RUINED IT! I never forget Posted at 5:49 pm on July 2, 2009 Well I reccomend that you as a 23 year old stop asking teens to solve your problems, be a big girl and put out. FurryCupcake Posted at 4:34 pm on July 2, 2009 I think if that's what you're worried about and the ONLY thing stopping you, you could get some condoms and get on the pill or some other form of birth control. I wouldn't have sex with my boyfriend without being on something either. I wouldn't even do just a condom, I just don't want to risk it. But if you don't want to deal with it just yet, that's your right and your call. imSOFAKINGrad Posted at 12:09 pm on July 2, 2009 i think you're over reacting about sex. sai Posted at 12:07 pm on July 2, 2009 Just like how some people view sex as being something of a necessity in a relationship, some people don't - like you. What you could do is explain how you feel about sex to him and well, if he disagrees with your point of view, I don't think there's much you can do except break up with him and find someone who has the same perspective as you. BrittBee Posted at 12:04 pm on July 2, 2009 You're not ridiculous, you have a right to want to wait until marraige. But being that HE is almost 30, sex is like a basic need pretty much. He thinks you're ridiculous because he doesn't care about sex before marraige. If he's been with you for 6 months though, he won't just dump you because you put out for him. He would have given up a long time ago. If you're only holding off because you're worried about getting pregnant, then get on the pill, use condoms, AND have him pull out still. But if it really means something to you to hold off then don't do it. Don't be surprised though if he dumps you because you WON'T have sex with him. Most recent 15 of 37 previous replies displayed.