Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Is this normal in a relationship? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from Anonymous at 6:59 am on July 3, 2009[quote]well, i think its great thing that you arn't planning on having sex for a while, it is over-rated, and not an important part of any REAL relationship in my honest opinion, not until two people are committed and have been together for a long time. It depends what you class as normal really, i mean, alot of people are having sex in their relationships as if that is "normal" but in my view, i think it isnt normal to just have sex for the sake of it. If you feel it is getting too physical, limit the time you are alone together so things don't get too heated, and better still, talk to him about it, and set clear boundaries so you both know when to stop eachother if one of you is feeling weak at anytime. Of course there will always be sexual desires when you are alone, atleast most of the time, but if you can hold back, you will feel more respect for eachother, trust me on that xxx [/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 6:55 am on July 3, 2009 I love my boyfriend as a person and we do alot of fun stuff together and we're both very open with eachother more open then with anyone else. But whenever we're alone and were talking we always start making out. Is that normal? or does that mean our relationship is too phsycial and meaningless? I'm 19 I'v never been in a serious relationship but he means alot to me and I want our relationship to mean alot too when we are alone we do get very physical with eachother alot we've never had sex and aren't planning too for along time..

Replies Johnboysfun Posted at 12:42 pm on July 4, 2009 There is something wrong with at least one or both of you. If you always get physical and it doesn't lead to getting naked and having sex, your inhibitions show some immaturity. LalaBby Posted at 11:18 am on July 3, 2009 Sex is big to me. It's another way to connect and become closer to your partner. It's a big step & doesn't always fare well, but it makes you closer. Chiefette Posted at 8:17 am on July 3, 2009 Anon must be a virgin.  Sex with someone you very much care about is not over rated.  It is an important part in my if not most serious and committed relationships.  That doesn't mean that every teen should go out and have sex but it is important.  I am in a very much real relationship and sex is important.  It isn't the whole relationship and we can survive without it but that doesn't mean that it is not important or we shouldn't have it. Expando1 Posted at 7:02 am on July 3, 2009 normal for teenagers. deuces13 Posted at 7:00 am on July 3, 2009 Chea it is? Anonymous Posted at 7:00 am on July 3, 2009 Quote: from sub800 at 9:58 am on July 3, 2009 serious my ass you're just a kid stop being so deep in this. and to answer your question: yes I know some people my age who have been dateing the same person for 3 and 4 years and you don't call that serious. Anonymous Posted at 6:59 am on July 3, 2009 well, i think its great thing that you arn't planning on having sex for a while, it is over-rated, and not an important part of any REAL relationship in my honest opinion, not until two people are committed and have been together for a long time. It depends what you class as normal really, i mean, alot of people are having sex in their relationships as if that is "normal" but in my view, i think it isnt normal to just have sex for the sake of it. If you feel it is getting too physical, limit the time you are alone together so things don't get too heated, and better still, talk to him about it, and set clear boundaries so you both know when to stop eachother if one of you is feeling weak at anytime. Of course there will always be sexual desires when you are alone, atleast most of the time, but if you can hold back, you will feel more respect for eachother, trust me on that xxx sub800 Posted at 6:58 am on July 3, 2009 serious my ass you're just a kid stop being so deep in this. and to answer your question: yes Areola Posted at 6:57 am on July 3, 2009 It's normal. ily13107 Posted at 6:56 am on July 3, 2009 It is normal. I guess it does mean your relationship is very physical. Live Just To Die Posted at 6:56 am on July 3, 2009 Uhm, yes... you're teenagers. I can talk with a lad in public about anything, be totally seperate from them but as soon as we get into a place where it's private it's all about body contact, lmao. It's perfectly normal. Unless you don't want that to happen, I'm sure you could carry on the talking... All 11 previous replies displayed.