Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic my first time Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from Anonymous at 8:05 am on July 4, 2009[quote]=ok, so me and my boyfriend tried to have sex. but it hurt WAY TO MUCH to do anything. I want to have sex with him but i dont want it to hurt as bad as it did. any suggestions to make it not hurt as much?  :confused: [/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 8:05 am on July 4, 2009 =ok, so me and my boyfriend tried to have sex. but it hurt WAY TO MUCH to do anything. I want to have sex with him but i dont want it to hurt as bad as it did. any suggestions to make it not hurt as much?

Replies remaj10 Posted at 2:50 pm on July 5, 2009 foreplay and lube. also make sure you take your time the same thing happened with my gf and me. Millerr Posted at 9:31 pm on July 4, 2009 more fingering 1st SexAndCandy Posted at 5:30 pm on July 4, 2009 It didn't hurt at all the first time I had sex and I think it was because we did a lot of fingering before...I was not really conscious that it would help but I now think it really did. I remember at that time i wanted him really bad but I didn't know if I was ready to do the whole thing and doing this...among other things, helped us knowing eachothers bodie a lot better and helped me being a little less scared by sex. We've done things step by step. Emmaaa Posted at 8:20 am on July 4, 2009 Hey, my friend has this problem, just try to get your boyfriend to stretch you more by fingering you and over time it will be okay, :) xx dark raven x Posted at 8:11 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Anonymous at 4:05 pm on July 4, 2009 =ok, so me and my boyfriend tried to have sex. but it hurt WAY TO MUCH to do anything. I want to have sex with him but i dont want it to hurt as bad as it did. any suggestions to make it not hurt as much? Sounds a bit urgh bit if you pop your cherry during masturbation i.e controling it yourself it will make having sex for the first few times alot more pleasureable for you. just try one or 2 fingers to start of with and keep going until you feel comfortable enough to have sex with him without it hurting you. Chasey Posted at 8:06 am on July 4, 2009 lube Jasonzlpa Posted at 8:06 am on July 4, 2009 Um....  foreplay for awhile until it stretches out a bit. xsnortingxashesx Posted at 8:06 am on July 4, 2009 Lube for the short term, having sex more often for the long term. All 8 previous replies displayed.