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Anonymous Posted at 6:10 am on July 6, 2009
I already posted this last week but I need more advice...

I'm a girl so I was kinda expecting it to be painful. Anyways my bf was all like "I'll go slow at first." So he did and it was extremely painful. then he started going faster and I figured it would stop hurting but it didn't! and I told him to stop and he said no because "it will help you stop hurting" anyways he would NOT stop and he was getting all rough with me and I couldn't even stand it. I was like screaming at him to stop and like crying and he wouldn't!

Now I'm super pissed at him and I really don't know if I should even talk to him :(


SO I started talking to him again... bad idea?

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TaliaBBy Posted at 11:35 am on July 6, 2009
Rape .
Lillylove Posted at 10:33 am on July 6, 2009
In the long run he did you a favor. You have to get it done and over with eventually, may as well make it one complete episode. The important thing is to have sex again in several days and keep doing it until it feels wonderful
sesso Posted at 8:05 am on July 6, 2009
It's rape. You consented at the start, but then asked him to stop so it's still rape.

Leave him. Dump his disgusting ass and never speak to him again! Sooner the better!

RyuKotani90 Posted at 6:42 am on July 6, 2009
you were forced against your will when you said no he didnt listen you should also go check your self to see if there was any damage in your vaginal area
kya469 Posted at 6:33 am on July 6, 2009
Quote: from Anonymous at 9:10 am on July 6, 2009

I already posted this last week but I need more advice...

I'm a girl so I was kinda expecting it to be painful. Anyways my bf was all like "I'll go slow at first." So he did and it was extremely painful. then he started going faster and I figured it would stop hurting but it didn't! and I told him to stop and he said no because "it will help you stop hurting" anyways he would NOT stop and he was getting all rough with me and I couldn't even stand it. I was like screaming at him to stop and like crying and he wouldn't!  


This here is what a lot of folks call rape.

akirashinigami Posted at 6:33 am on July 6, 2009
You know, where I come from, we call that rape.
GlassHearts Posted at 6:24 am on July 6, 2009
Dump the jerk, seriously.

If he cared, he WOULD stop.

Goddess of Judecca Posted at 6:15 am on July 6, 2009
Marry him and have babiez.

~Maggot

DeForest Posted at 6:15 am on July 6, 2009
Say your boyfriend was, I don't know, stabbing you repeatedly in the gut, verses having sex with you. You scream and yell and tell him it hurts and to stop, but he continues on. Assume you live. Do you really want start talking to someone who obviously doesn't care that you're in pain as long as he gets his jollies?

Bad example, but yeah.

K r e s c e n d o Posted at 6:15 am on July 6, 2009
I would have thought that keep going would numb the pain.
cherryD Posted at 6:14 am on July 6, 2009
And the truth is he probably just doesn't have the will to stop and he couldn't stop so he makes some crap excuse and keeps going even if it does hurt you.
cherryD Posted at 6:13 am on July 6, 2009
No you need to talk to him. Tell him it hurts and he should get his penis shrunk.

 

NZ Guy Posted at 6:12 am on July 6, 2009
no
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