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awexome Posted at 1:16 am on July 10, 2009
Why is that?

He said he jerked off a few times today, but this isn't the first time it's happened lately. Well, I'll admit..the other times he couldn't finish, we were either drunk or high.

I know he's not cheating, please don't say something like that. Believe me, it is obvious. We've been dating a few years too, and he's a very kind-hearted & good boyfriend.

I'm a good looking girl too. Not totally skinny...but not fat. And I actually DO my part in making sex enjoyable. I don't just lay there.

But idk. When he can't finish, I feel like it's because I don't turn him on. I asked him that and he said that's definitely not the reason.

I guess it could be anything. Most likely it's the fapping, right?

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i effing rock Posted at 2:23 pm on July 10, 2009
Sometimes I cant cum. I can orgasm (the same sensation as cumming, just with out sperm coming out) but not cum.  Sometimes it feels good but nothing comes out.  
renegade riot Posted at 1:20 am on July 10, 2009
he has problems
Anonymous Posted at 1:20 am on July 10, 2009
To be honest, I have this exact same problem. I have no clue what mental block I have against finishing. It means I can keep going for a while, but it's certainly less fun, and I kind of worry it won't go away...

I technically have a fetish, so I sometimes think t hat might be part of the issue... and if your boyfriend is like me and has an equally strange one he might not be comfortable bringing it up.

Were X Posted at 1:19 am on July 10, 2009
probably just takes a long time or as james brauman said
rancid freakin rawk Posted at 1:19 am on July 10, 2009
must be the fappin' check his junk out next time, see if it looks exercised beforehand
awexome Posted at 1:19 am on July 10, 2009
Quote: from Mods1Blow2Me3Daily at 1:17 am on July 10, 2009

what if he just takes a while? takes me like 3 hours, 2 on a good day

We've been having sex for 2 years, usually it's 5 minutes to a half hour.

Clara Bell Posted at 1:18 am on July 10, 2009
Sometimes it just happens.
If it's a frequent problem, try exploring other ways to stimulate him.
laylow Posted at 1:18 am on July 10, 2009
Quote: from sub800 at 1:17 am on July 10, 2009

he might be fappin prior to the sexin

so he can last


tht works every time too!

JamesBrauman Posted at 1:18 am on July 10, 2009
Yes most likely. But I mean I have never come from sex or foreplay, I need to do it myself to be honest.
sub800 Posted at 1:17 am on July 10, 2009
he might be fappin prior to the sexin

so he can last

Mods1Blow2Me3Daily Posted at 1:17 am on July 10, 2009
what if he just takes a while? takes me like 3 hours, 2 on a good day
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