Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Seriously Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from Anonymous at 8:36 am on July 10, 2009[quote]I know when I post about this topic it gets old and annoying and it's one of the main reasons I joined LW but still haven't been able to deal w/t it. I need to pm someone to talk to about something shameful. I was molested way back when I was little. I got over that no problem....problem actually, it was a family member who only till recently in my life did we consistently live together and even when I told my mom she turned victim and told me to get over it. What's gross is that he still acts perverse around me and I'm NEVER comfortable around him and I'm told to deal w/t it but it's SICKENING and I need to overcome the flashbacks, nightmares etc...anyone wanna talk? [/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 8:36 am on July 10, 2009 I know when I post about this topic it gets old and annoying and it's one of the main reasons I joined LW but still haven't been able to deal w/t it. I need to pm someone to talk to about something shameful. I was molested way back when I was little. I got over that no problem....problem actually, it was a family member who only till recently in my life did we consistently live together and even when I told my mom she turned victim and told me to get over it. What's gross is that he still acts perverse around me and I'm NEVER comfortable around him and I'm told to deal w/t it but it's SICKENING and I need to overcome the flashbacks, nightmares etc...anyone wanna talk?

Replies Gruadia Posted at 8:54 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:48 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Anonymous at 8:47 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 11:45 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Gruadia at 8:44 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:42 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Days Of The New at 8:41 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Days Of The New at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:38 am on July 10, 2009 Run away. Oh yeah cuz that will really solve the problem.     yeah, she wont have to deal with him anymore. Running away is no fun. You have no place to stay. You don't have food/water. And yes i know how it is. I did it. And that is why i am here.    I know people who have run away and they were fine. you just need a good plan and some cash.       sometimes money is a problem to some teens. I mean, I don't even have a job yet I really need one for no reason.   you can always pawn, sell books to Mckays, sell crap on ebay.    I'm not all fine but VERY stable away from home, we have so many underlying issues besides this one in my family b/c they have honesty issues to overcome..so even being away from it all physically doesn't resolve the issues juat leave them out of your life completely, no calls, no emails, no visits of course, no pictures, NOTHING I would still give them one letter saying that this would be the last time hearing from you, unless something has changed. Then you can go, get a job, or a career, an apartment with someone, and live life without having the flashbacks. Doesn't sound too hard to do. Kaijuu Posted at 8:48 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Anonymous at 8:47 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 11:45 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Gruadia at 8:44 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:42 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Days Of The New at 8:41 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Days Of The New at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:38 am on July 10, 2009 Run away. Oh yeah cuz that will really solve the problem.           yeah, she wont have to deal with him anymore. Running away is no fun. You have no place to stay. You don't have food/water. And yes i know how it is. I did it. And that is why i am here.       I know people who have run away and they were fine. you just need a good plan and some cash.   sometimes money is a problem to some teens. I mean, I don't even have a job yet I really need one for no reason.    you can always pawn, sell books to Mckays, sell crap on ebay. I'm not all fine but VERY stable away from home, we have so many underlying issues besides this one in my family b/c they have honesty issues to overcome..so even being away from it all physically doesn't resolve the issues juat leave them out of your life completely, no calls, no emails, no visits of course, no pictures, NOTHING Anonymous Posted at 8:47 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 11:45 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Gruadia at 8:44 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:42 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Days Of The New at 8:41 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Days Of The New at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:38 am on July 10, 2009 Run away. Oh yeah cuz that will really solve the problem.    yeah, she wont have to deal with him anymore. Running away is no fun. You have no place to stay. You don't have food/water. And yes i know how it is. I did it. And that is why i am here.   I know people who have run away and they were fine. you just need a good plan and some cash.    sometimes money is a problem to some teens. I mean, I don't even have a job yet I really need one for no reason. you can always pawn, sell books to Mckays, sell crap on ebay. I'm not all fine but VERY stable away from home, we have so many underlying issues besides this one in my family b/c they have honesty issues to overcome..so even being away from it all physically doesn't resolve the issues Anonymous Posted at 8:45 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 11:42 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Days Of The New at 8:41 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Days Of The New at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:38 am on July 10, 2009 Run away. Oh yeah cuz that will really solve the problem.   yeah, she wont have to deal with him anymore. Running away is no fun. You have no place to stay. You don't have food/water. And yes i know how it is. I did it. And that is why i am here. I know people who have run away and they were fine. you just need a good plan and some cash. I live away from home now going to college going into my last year...I'm so proud...it's just the occasional flashbacks I get or the images, names, etc, I have some personal control issues to deal w/t Kaijuu Posted at 8:45 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Gruadia at 8:44 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:42 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Days Of The New at 8:41 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Days Of The New at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:38 am on July 10, 2009 Run away. Oh yeah cuz that will really solve the problem.       yeah, she wont have to deal with him anymore. Running away is no fun. You have no place to stay. You don't have food/water. And yes i know how it is. I did it. And that is why i am here.    I know people who have run away and they were fine. you just need a good plan and some cash. sometimes money is a problem to some teens. I mean, I don't even have a job yet I really need one for no reason. you can always pawn, sell books to Mckays, sell crap on ebay. Gruadia Posted at 8:44 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:42 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Days Of The New at 8:41 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Days Of The New at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:38 am on July 10, 2009 Run away. Oh yeah cuz that will really solve the problem.   yeah, she wont have to deal with him anymore. Running away is no fun. You have no place to stay. You don't have food/water. And yes i know how it is. I did it. And that is why i am here. I know people who have run away and they were fine. you just need a good plan and some cash. sometimes money is a problem to some teens. I mean, I don't even have a job yet I really need one for no reason. Kaijuu Posted at 8:42 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Days Of The New at 8:41 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Days Of The New at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:38 am on July 10, 2009 Run away. Oh yeah cuz that will really solve the problem.    yeah, she wont have to deal with him anymore. Running away is no fun. You have no place to stay. You don't have food/water. And yes i know how it is. I did it. And that is why i am here. I know people who have run away and they were fine. you just need a good plan and some cash. Thanantos Posted at 8:41 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Days Of The New at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:38 am on July 10, 2009 Run away. Oh yeah cuz that will really solve the problem. yeah, she wont have to deal with him anymore. Running away is no fun. You have no place to stay. You don't have food/water. And yes i know how it is. I did it. And that is why i am here. Gruadia Posted at 8:41 am on July 10, 2009 Just get away from there. Tell your mom that if he's around, you aren't. Go live with another family member. Ewwy Posted at 8:40 am on July 10, 2009 Talkk to me if youu please, But i m sure i can help youu in this subject. Mods1Blow2Me3Daily Posted at 8:40 am on July 10, 2009 PM me. ill help Kaijuu Posted at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Days Of The New at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:38 am on July 10, 2009 Run away. Oh yeah cuz that will really solve the problem. yeah, she wont have to deal with him anymore. An Young Guy Posted at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 911? Thanantos Posted at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:38 am on July 10, 2009 Run away. Oh yeah cuz that will really solve the problem. Kaijuu Posted at 8:38 am on July 10, 2009 Run away. 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