Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Questions... Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]EmbraceTheHate[/m] at 8:15 am on July 11, 2009[quote]well what exactly are you worried about?[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Fireiceair Posted at 8:14 am on July 11, 2009 hey, i'm a senior in high school and my bf just graduated last year. we've been together for almost a year and i think we're ready for sex. Emotionally, i know it's okay b/c we love each other and we have a plan for our lives, but intelectually, i'm worried. does anyone have advice, comments, opinions...please

Replies Kinky R us Posted at 6:54 pm on July 11, 2009 Quote: from Fireiceair at 8:18 am on July 11, 2009 I'm worried about the fact that if the something went wrong that I could get pregnant. We've talked about me getting pregnant before we're ready for kids and i've told him we won't keep it. I would not wanna even know what it would be, but he told me he would want try to keep it. Any advice.... well you got all kind of stuff nowadays to prevent it like condoms and pills and shit Kinky R us Posted at 6:53 pm on July 11, 2009 first you have to say what are you exactly worried about it doesn't sound to me like you really have an actual problem then what the hell are you waiting for? dipshit Posted at 8:35 am on July 11, 2009 i have a friend who did that. she was with this guy for a year and they decided to have sex and then right after their one year anniversary she broke it off. and remember guys tend to be more concerned with having sex then finding/keeping love Zerks Posted at 8:27 am on July 11, 2009 i was ready for sex about 2 weeks into my relationship :/ Tavis Posted at 8:24 am on July 11, 2009 Have you considered going onto the pill? I'm talking about Birth Control. It would probably be not too bad to talk to your parents about it, if you wanted to seek their approval. Most girls in high school go on it, even if they aren't having sex, to just be more safe and help regulate hormones. So having a boyfriend for over a year is an even better reason. I suggest you do that, but if you don't feel comfortable, using a condom and lube also is pretty effective, especially for the first time kind of thing, until you get used to it. If you have any more concerns, please tell, I'll try and help you out here Prankster28 Posted at 8:24 am on July 11, 2009 and what about use pills? Paper Dolls Posted at 8:21 am on July 11, 2009 Go on birth control and use a condom. Fireiceair Posted at 8:18 am on July 11, 2009 I'm worried about the fact that if the something went wrong that I could get pregnant. We've talked about me getting pregnant before we're ready for kids and i've told him we won't keep it. I would not wanna even know what it would be, but he told me he would want try to keep it. Any advice.... lolums Posted at 8:17 am on July 11, 2009 Quote: from Fireiceair at 4:14 pm on July 11, 2009 but intelectually, i'm worried.   Worried? Care to elaborate? Just do it! Muffinman Posted at 8:16 am on July 11, 2009 Condoms/lub woodsy93 Posted at 8:16 am on July 11, 2009 Quote: from EmbraceTheHate at 10:15 am on July 11, 2009 well what exactly are you worried about? . SacredSecrets09 Posted at 8:15 am on July 11, 2009 go for it :) sex is amazing.... just be careful ;] EmbraceTheHate Posted at 8:15 am on July 11, 2009 well what exactly are you worried about? All 13 previous replies displayed.