Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic What do people think of monogamy? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]greatescape[/m] at 9:34 pm on May 5, 2012[quote]I think it's a pretty individual opinion.  It works perfectly for some and not at all for others. I don't even know what the hell i"m in.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post TheNightingaleGirl Posted at 9:28 pm on May 5, 2012 I have grown up with the idea of being monogomous, I'm curious of what others think.

Replies Uniq0ne Posted at 7:07 pm on May 7, 2012 It's more healthy and fun to love more than just 1 person. As long as you are able to get past jealousy, which is also unhealthy. When you have kids there could actually be more than just 2 parents. The more parenting the child receives the better in my opinion. Sometimes 2 parents don't have enough time to raise a child (both working for example). And if there was a 3rd , 4th etc parent to be there to raise the child that would be great. Monogamy is just an invention, that is culturally considered to be the norm, but not nessesarily the BEST or HEALTHIEST method of relationships. Shogun villimax Posted at 2:44 pm on May 7, 2012 If you do it right its awesome. If you do it wrong its the worst thing ever. Scottish Gal Posted at 7:35 am on May 7, 2012 For me it's the only way. Jaguar Posted at 6:52 am on May 7, 2012 Given the number of people who cheat, have open relationships or move from relationship to relationship, I'd say it's probably not the natural order of things. I'm sure a lot of people are most comfortable with it but I don't think it works for someone who isn't to be locked into it. I think a lot of relationships and marriages would work better if it were acknowledged that one or the other partner, or both, have to have fuck someone different sometimes. anthonykorsen007 Posted at 6:50 pm on May 6, 2012 I think it depends on what you define as "monogamy." I find it hilarious that when you're in a relationship you're not allowed to even think about looking at anyone else, but once you're single you can just do whatever with whoever... until you're "in a relationship" again. I don't think that's how monogamy is supposed to work. perfectlyflawd Posted at 10:57 am on May 6, 2012 I do not think monogamy is for everyone, So i say do what is best for you and your partner. Charlei Posted at 10:47 am on May 6, 2012 Personally, monogamy is the only option.  If someone else wants to do something else with their relationships, that's their business. JennyColada Posted at 10:26 am on May 6, 2012 I like the idea of monogamy. But it doesn't keep me happy. Open relationships are more natural and comfortable for me. starry night Posted at 10:17 am on May 6, 2012 I like monogamy gucciva Posted at 3:35 am on May 6, 2012 smart and good for me at this moment only possible CURIOUS ONE Posted at 10:15 pm on May 5, 2012 Quote: from Hexapod at 9:29 pm on May 5, 2012 most people love the idea of monogamy but are not good at practicing it Very true. Music2Live Posted at 10:10 pm on May 5, 2012 It's the only thing I want. Screw that whole open relationship thing/multiple partners at a time thing. No thanks. That is how STD's and STI's are spread. BettyBoop416 Posted at 9:50 pm on May 5, 2012 Monogamy is more natural in my opinion. People think that it's natural to want multiple partners because that is the best way to keep our species alive (and that's the basic instinct... survival of ourselves and the species) however I am of the mindset it is more natural to protect what is ours. And if you look at partners as belongings (which many people do by habit) then... it makes sense to only have one. nyn Posted at 9:39 pm on May 5, 2012 it's what i'm naturally inclined to VampireNinja Posted at 9:35 pm on May 5, 2012 The only reason I chose other is because I do not see myself getting married. However, I do think that a person should only have one partner at a time. Most recent 15 of 22 previous replies displayed.