Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic "Questioning" isn't comfy. Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]madilovesyou[/m] at 6:59 pm on July 3, 2012[quote]As long as I can remember, I've found females attractive. But guys catch my eye too. However, I've only really been comfortable dating girls or doing anything beyond a kiss with them. I'm one who struggles with being unable to label myself, so I seek advice. Would it be wise to try something more with a guy? Or should I just stay in my comfort zone and consider myself a lesbian? Please be nice.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post madilovesyou Posted at 6:59 pm on July 3, 2012 As long as I can remember, I've found females attractive. But guys catch my eye too. However, I've only really been comfortable dating girls or doing anything beyond a kiss with them. I'm one who struggles with being unable to label myself, so I seek advice. Would it be wise to try something more with a guy? Or should I just stay in my comfort zone and consider myself a lesbian? Please be nice.

Replies willowchaneka Posted at 8:40 pm on July 6, 2012 I'm kind of the same way. Experiment more before you make a solid decision. And even if you can't, who cares what you are? Just be yourself and whoever catches your eye, guy or girl, flow with it. Jaguar Posted at 9:06 am on July 5, 2012 Quote: from Natsy at 7:33 am on July 5, 2012 If you're comfortable, go try things. I encourage you to try things whilst you're young. You don't want to be that middle aged bloke looking for his first gay blowjob. LOL. That's true. Better to try it now and be honest with yourself. There's really no harm in it. Don't be surprised if you try it and decide you like guys better. I think that's by far the healthier thing than to turn into some creeper like Natsy says. Natsy Posted at 7:33 am on July 5, 2012 If you're comfortable, go try things. I encourage you to try things whilst you're young. You don't want to be that middle aged bloke looking for his first gay blowjob. nefari0us Posted at 8:05 pm on July 3, 2012 Love is love. Date who you find attractive. Why bother trying to force a label on it? Sasumay1234 Posted at 7:20 pm on July 3, 2012 If you want to try just do it. I am sure it won't hurt much. lostsoul305 Posted at 7:06 pm on July 3, 2012 It's  all up to you how you want to be labeled. BR0CONUT Posted at 7:06 pm on July 3, 2012 I think a bit of experimenting with men would do you good. Only do what makes you feel comfortable. I don't really care much about sexuality. I like literally everyone, the entire gender spectrum, so I'm just like "whatever. It is what it is."   This whole "questioning" thing isn't going to disappear unless you do something about it, you know? Ephemeral Posted at 7:05 pm on July 3, 2012 Consider yourself label free. I don't really see what purpose a label serves anyhow- when it comes down to it, we are all simply human. Try whatever it is that you want to try. Don't put any restraints or limitations on yourself. Luxe Posted at 7:01 pm on July 3, 2012 Do whatever you want. Your sexuality doesn't matter to us. If you want to date guys, date guys. If not, then don't. Not that hard. All 9 previous replies displayed.