Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Fuck Buddy - Moral Advice Please! Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]Erasmus B Dragon[/m] at 5:16 pm on Aug. 8, 2012[quote]Do it if you're really going to move[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Steve4610 Posted at 5:12 pm on Aug. 8, 2012 Could be a long one here. Basically my ex, let's call her H, well she's been hinting, saying really, that she wants us to have sex. The issue is that she still has feelings for me, that's pretty clear. We ended a month or so ago after a 6 month thing, with her interested in me for a good 6 months before that. We ended though, because she cheated on me, sort of. She didn't have sex with anyone else, but she got off with another guy and essentially said she wanted to be with him. Crash, bangm everything over. About a week later she started texting me saying what a horrible mistake she made. Now, this week rolls around, and she started telling me how she missed being in my bed, lieing her head on my chest, blah blah. Anyway, the things she missed got more explicit, and through a chat she essentially said that even if we couldn;t be back together she wanted us to be 'together' in that way. So here's my issue. I have some residual feelings for her, but they're not major. She clearly still has quite strong feelings for me. So though I know I'm fine with that, I'm sure she's hoping we'll develop into something more. So I should say no right? But then, she was one of the best lays I've ever had, also, she hurt me before, so I feel less obliged. Aaand finally, I'll be moving away to Uni in a month and a half aswell. So, LW. Yes or No? I need some opinions here. Because it's been a 3 week drought, with no other end in sight and I'm worried my judgement will become impaired pretty damn soon.

Replies Rastafarian Posted at 6:43 pm on Aug. 8, 2012 Fuck, why not? She knows the situation, if she is going to get herself too emotionally and attached to your dick that's her own fucking fault, and all the more deserved. Lally Posted at 6:03 pm on Aug. 8, 2012 I believe that yes, she may have strong feelings for you. But in the end, she did hurt you and she did leave you for another guy. Not to put salt in the wound, but the feelings she had for you must have not been THAT strong, since she left you for another guy.   What has probably happened....is that her guy that she left you for wasn't all rainbows and unicorns that she thought he was and she misses you. That, I don't doubt. I bet she does miss you. Because I bet you are a really nice guy. But she still left you and hurt you. Don't have sex with her. Keep your chin up and say no. By doing that, it shows her that you have your own backbone and that you are your own person. Edit: Not to mention, if you have sex with her... 1. She will most likely want to stay together afterwards. 2. With you thinking its just sex, she may think that as well, but there is DEFINITELY an ulterior motive to what she is doing. So when you go see another girl afterwards, she will get jealous and all hell will break loose. MooMooMilk Posted at 5:46 pm on Aug. 8, 2012 Quote: from Steve4610 at 5:45 pm on Aug. 8, 2012 To be honest, I think I am ok with that. I've made the situation clear, and she's the one that ruined the past relationship. So, yeah, I think what I'm doing isn't so bad. B) Then go for it. Steve4610 Posted at 5:45 pm on Aug. 8, 2012 Quote: from Moomoomilk at 5:41 pm on Aug. 8, 2012 Well since your going to move, I guess afterwards, around the time she expects it to become something more, it won't be a problem. Practically speaking. Morally speaking, are you comfortable leaving her knowing that she has feelings for you and will want more? As far as morals, it's up to you. To be honest, I think I am ok with that. I've made the situation clear, and she's the one that ruined the past relationship. So, yeah, I think what I'm doing isn't so bad. B) mal3diction amoureux Posted at 5:43 pm on Aug. 8, 2012 Fuck her. MooMooMilk Posted at 5:41 pm on Aug. 8, 2012 Well since your going to move, I guess afterwards, around the time she expects it to become something more, it won't be a problem. Practically speaking. Morally speaking, are you comfortable leaving her knowing that she has feelings for you and will want more? As far as morals, it's up to you. Jaguar Posted at 5:39 pm on Aug. 8, 2012 I've been fuck buddies with exes before. It was good but didn't last forever. As long as you both say what you want, no harm done. Erasmus B Dragon Posted at 5:16 pm on Aug. 8, 2012 Do it if you're really going to move All 8 previous replies displayed.