Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic how to be sexy? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]123123123[/m] at 5:59 pm on Jan. 7, 2007[quote]Well if you wanna be "sexy" just show off what you've got really.. dont go too slutty though, but in my opinion, just be yourself, "sexy" and "cool" are overrated.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 5:55 pm on Jan. 7, 2007 what should a girl be to be sexy? or attractive? lets say she is decent looking and had a great figure but dresses frumpily and dosent put much effort into her looks. does she have hope? should she dye her hair or style it a certain way? maybe tighter pants and shirts?

Replies girlx Posted at 9:21 am on Jan. 8, 2007 confidence = sexy ilvsex Posted at 7:42 am on Jan. 8, 2007 just be who you are honey. sexy is what you feel insde, confidence in yourself cgman Posted at 6:44 pm on Jan. 7, 2007 Quote: from edenzs at 9:17 pm on Jan. 7, 2007 Quote: from Rastafarian at 6:05 pm on Jan. 7, 2007 Yes, you have hope.    Put some effort and make yourself your definition of sexy. Don't go after someone elses. Being who you are (even if you are changing your appearance) is key.    Most people are like Don't change yourself lol, fag retarded.    You can change your image and still be yourself.    So goto a mall with a bunch of friends and pick out some sexy outfits, and get a haircut that you think is awesomely hot as well.    Also, by being this sexy you, rather then sexy someone else, you gain confidence in the fact that you think you are sexy, and   you aren't striving after some other preconception that really isn't your taste. I completely agree. I really don't look at a frumpily dressed girl (no matter how good-looking) and think "she's sexy." A part of being sexy is confidence, and for many people, including myself,   great figure + tighter clothes that show off your shape = confidence while great figure + frumpy clothes = frumpy.   In a perfect world, it wouldn't be this way, but oh well.   Exactly right. venom90 Posted at 6:34 pm on Jan. 7, 2007 wear tighter clothes so they can see that figure..."frumpy" is kinda unrevealing edenzs Posted at 6:17 pm on Jan. 7, 2007 Quote: from Rastafarian at 6:05 pm on Jan. 7, 2007 Yes, you have hope. Put some effort and make yourself your definition of sexy. Don't go after someone elses. Being who you are (even if you are changing your appearance) is key. Most people are like Don't change yourself lol, fag retarded. You can change your image and still be yourself. So goto a mall with a bunch of friends and pick out some sexy outfits, and get a haircut that you think is awesomely hot as well. Also, by being this sexy you, rather then sexy someone else, you gain confidence in the fact that you think you are sexy, and   you aren't striving after some other preconception that really isn't your taste. I completely agree. I really don't look at a frumpily dressed girl (no matter how good-looking) and think "she's sexy." A part of being sexy is confidence, and for many people, including myself,   great figure + tighter clothes that show off your shape = confidence while great figure + frumpy clothes = frumpy. In a perfect world, it wouldn't be this way, but oh well. Rastafarian Posted at 6:05 pm on Jan. 7, 2007 Yes, you have hope. Put some effort and make yourself your definition of sexy. Don't go after someone elses. Being who you are (even if you are changing your appearance) is key. Most people are like Don't change yourself lol, fag retarded. You can change your image and still be yourself. So goto a mall with a bunch of friends and pick out some sexy outfits, and get a haircut that you think is awesomely hot as well. Also, by being this sexy you, rather then sexy someone else, you gain confidence in the fact that you think you are sexy, and   you aren't striving after some other preconception that really isn't your taste. dr zoidberg1502 Posted at 6:01 pm on Jan. 7, 2007 looks are there or not, clothes makeup etc simply aid your looks there there has to be a good foundation underneath besides its all personal preference if your a nice looking girl it doesnt really matter a damn emmy350 Posted at 6:00 pm on Jan. 7, 2007 To me, it's not exactly what they wear. It's confidence in their looks, even the slightest thing can be the difference between why one girl is sexy and another is not. Like even the way the walk, the way they get the hair out of their face. I feel it's the little things. Yes, those girls who dress sexy are sexy, but I don't know where I'm going, I just lost my train of thought, when, I think of it I will say it... 123123123 Posted at 5:59 pm on Jan. 7, 2007 Well if you wanna be "sexy" just show off what you've got really.. dont go too slutty though, but in my opinion, just be yourself, "sexy" and "cool" are overrated. foxypunk Posted at 5:58 pm on Jan. 7, 2007 I think sexy is for after you have someone and it sould be an intimate thing, but if you wear frumpy cloths people might find it sexy if you wore fitting cloths cause they couldnt see your figure before and then its like wow kinda thing, I dunno sorry Saralita Posted at 5:58 pm on Jan. 7, 2007 it's sad how girls feel the need to comprimise who they are to fit our society's definition of "sexy". she should just be herself, and if she wants guys to think of her in that way, then she should just flirt with them a little. if she wants to feel more attractive, then she can change her hair/clothes according to her own taste. EDIT: don't dress in tight clothes just for attention from boys. you are better than that. gregorymahony Posted at 5:58 pm on Jan. 7, 2007 she should like lots of sex lol purplefrenchfry Posted at 5:57 pm on Jan. 7, 2007 I'd like to know as well. This should be intresting. I'll stick around. ;) Heart92 Posted at 5:56 pm on Jan. 7, 2007 I say yes this is her chance to be pretty! All 14 previous replies displayed.