Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic broken up over alcohol Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]SomeRandomKid[/m] at 12:30 am on Jan. 2, 2009[quote]insane in the membrane =_[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post wishbone123 Posted at 12:28 am on Jan. 2, 2009 Hey guys. I'm a 18 female in a relationship with (but now broken up for good I think) with a 18 guy for just over 2 years. I had a difficult childhood cause my dad was an alcoholic and he left when I was 8ish. My boyfriend likes to casually drink with friends but it freaks me out and I get upset because it reminds me of my dad and I am afraid he will end up becoming an alcoholic and leaving me. I told him I didn't really mind, as long as he didn't keep the drinking a secret from me like my dad did. Well, the other night, my boyfriend came over and he had a hangover. He just wanted to sleep on the couch instead of spending time with me. I asked him again and again until he finally confessed that he had been drinking with his friends the night before while playing video games. I was so upset because he had lied to me about it that we got into a huge fight and now we are broken up. It doesn't feel right, though. We still love each other and it just doesn't feel like we are supposed to be apart. What do you suggest? Am I right for leaving him because he kept the drinking a secret, or am I being totally crazy? I want to get back together with him, but I don't want him to drink because it causes me so much pain.

Replies Xusk Posted at 8:09 am on Jan. 2, 2009 Move on, grow up and live life. The process repeats, being 18, you have plenty of time to find true love. The more relationships you have, the more you'll realise what your truely looking for and then you will find it but untill then, your bound for failure. Guys know exactly what they want and untill they become older, it's not a soul mate. FUN comes to mind. annabelleeEAP Posted at 12:56 am on Jan. 2, 2009 fear is not something break up with some one over unless you senses your in danger x MILI Posted at 12:43 am on Jan. 2, 2009 Quote: from wishbone123 at 12:32 am on Jan. 2, 2009 Quote: from x mili at 12:31 am on Jan. 2, 2009 thats not a good enough reason to break up wit someone He already knew how much it hurt me when he drank but he decided to do it anyway. I certainly feels like he didn't care about us, as long as he could drink with his friends. idk maybe yall should talk about it while hes not hungover... peer pressure is a bitch patchysmiles Posted at 12:40 am on Jan. 2, 2009 go buy a gallloon of milk. it will make your life better wishbone123 Posted at 12:32 am on Jan. 2, 2009 Quote: from x mili at 12:31 am on Jan. 2, 2009 thats not a good enough reason to break up wit someone He already knew how much it hurt me when he drank but he decided to do it anyway. I certainly feels like he didn't care about us, as long as he could drink with his friends. ArrestedAndCharged Posted at 12:32 am on Jan. 2, 2009 You guys are just awful, sick! Lol Hun, don't get back together with him. He clearly has a problem and you deserve so much better than that. Find a guy who's responsible with his life, somebody who doesn't make alcohol his god. lucid dreams19 Posted at 12:31 am on Jan. 2, 2009 I mean he shouldnt of lied, but hes  young and hes gonna do what hes gonna do. You pressuring him to not drink is probably why he felt he had to lie too you. Hes not an alcoholic or a bad person or going to leave you if he drinks once in a while. Ask him not too drink i guess if you really need too, but remember that he is young and that is what kids do. He has been with you for 2 years because he cares about you and his drinking doesnt mean that he doesnt care for you. His drinking will not cause him to leave you in any way. Just remember to be tolerant and compromise. x MILI Posted at 12:31 am on Jan. 2, 2009 thats not a good enough reason to break up wit someone Rocket boy Posted at 12:31 am on Jan. 2, 2009 Get back with him and help him to stop drinking. HatesYou Posted at 12:30 am on Jan. 2, 2009 Quote: from SomeRandomKid at 3:30 am on Jan. 2, 2009 insane in the membrane =_ Aw fuck beat me to it. HatesYou Posted at 12:30 am on Jan. 2, 2009 Quote: from Valient at 3:29 am on Jan. 2, 2009 Not only are you crazy, you might be what some call "insane in the brain". INSANE IN THE MEMBRANE. SomeRandomKid Posted at 12:30 am on Jan. 2, 2009 insane in the membrane =_ wishbone123 Posted at 12:30 am on Jan. 2, 2009 Quote: from Valient at 12:29 am on Jan. 2, 2009 Not only are you crazy, you might be what some call "insane in the brain". Why do you say that? VALIENT Posted at 12:29 am on Jan. 2, 2009 Not only are you crazy, you might be what some call "insane in the brain". All 14 previous replies displayed.