Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Do what he does Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]Stellar[/m] at 1:12 am on Jan. 2, 2009[quote]Stick to your guns.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post wishbone123 Posted at 1:11 am on Jan. 2, 2009 I've never tried alcohol, which isn't really normal for an 18 year old. My boyfriend has drinks with his friends on the weekends and it makes me upset because I want him to be like me and not drink. I caught him drinking the other day and we are broken up now. So I'm sitting here thinking "Fuck this, maybe I should just get wasted, get it over with, and see what he thinks about THAT"

Replies yourbrainonsaget Posted at 10:57 am on Jan. 2, 2009 well i guess if you can't accept him for who he is then its a good thing your broken up.   On another note, you can't expect anybody to "be like you."   Its just ludicris.  You should only drink if you want to for the experience, but it sounds like its just a plan of revenge to  me. Xusk Posted at 7:58 am on Jan. 2, 2009 I'd say you have alot of maturing to do and drugs in general is the last thing you need to be doing. Kids these days... My Dreams WILL Wait Posted at 1:19 am on Jan. 2, 2009 Don't. You know what you are "you don't drink for a good reason. " You care and you know that alcohol is not good for you. Don't do it just to be like others "careless"..That's no excuse...I say confront them..stick to who you really are.. steve123411 Posted at 1:18 am on Jan. 2, 2009 Quote: from wishbone123 at 1:15 am on Jan. 2, 2009 Quote: from steve123411 at 1:13 am on Jan. 2, 2009 So you're pretty much saying that you're a controlling bitch? The guy gets together with his buddies and has a couple beer seems pretty normal to me? Unless there is more to the story and he is always out of control wasted. Haha, maybe I am a controlling bitch. But, he's not legal drinking age yet anyway :p So you're a controlling bitch and a bible thumper. Sound like a real catch. Neodymie Posted at 1:17 am on Jan. 2, 2009  But, he's not legal drinking age yet anyway :p Wow. You guys are 18. Close enough. HeavenShallBurn Posted at 1:16 am on Jan. 2, 2009 He is drinking... it aint like he is popin Oxy, smokin crack, snortin coke and shootin up Heroin. SO deal with it, god, and have a drink, THEY ARE GREAT ariadne Posted at 1:15 am on Jan. 2, 2009 fuckk yea get wastedd! wishbone123 Posted at 1:15 am on Jan. 2, 2009 Quote: from steve123411 at 1:13 am on Jan. 2, 2009 So you're pretty much saying that you're a controlling bitch? The guy gets together with his buddies and has a couple beer seems pretty normal to me? Unless there is more to the story and he is always out of control wasted. Haha, maybe I am a controlling bitch. But, he's not legal drinking age yet anyway :p Sector Corrupt Posted at 1:14 am on Jan. 2, 2009 I think both stances are a bit off. On the one hand, Drinking is bad if he's doing it too often and too much. On the other hand, it's unfair to completely expect him to go without. a happy moderate is a much better solution. If you're really uncomfortable with it though, explain it to him why you're uncomfortable and maybe he can give you some reassurance. If you'll never be comfortable with it, and he's willing to give it up for you that's fine, but realize that it might be too large a sacrifice and finding someone who shares the same values might be better for you. Neodymie Posted at 1:14 am on Jan. 2, 2009 There's nothing wrong with drinking. That's a stupid reason to dump someone. Just drink in moderation. steve123411 Posted at 1:13 am on Jan. 2, 2009 So you're pretty much saying that you're a controlling bitch? The guy gets together with his buddies and has a couple beer seems pretty normal to me? Unless there is more to the story and he is always out of control wasted. blufindr Posted at 1:13 am on Jan. 2, 2009 Don't get wasted. It's not good for you. beachgirl101 Posted at 1:13 am on Jan. 2, 2009 Chances are, he's not worth it. If he's trash, that doesn't mean you need to be trash too. snowfish Posted at 1:13 am on Jan. 2, 2009 that's a really retarded idea, coming from someone who drinks every day. Go ahead and try alcohol, but do it on your own time in moderation. Total Destruction Posted at 1:13 am on Jan. 2, 2009 Go ahead and try it! Most recent 15 of 17 previous replies displayed.