Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic i dont wanna hurt him, but i need help. please? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]kookykylex3[/m] at 5:13 pm on Aug. 27, 2008[quote]tell him[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 5:11 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 i am...going through alot of crap basically. talk of my parents splitting up, i just moved, a boy who i'm hopelessly devoted to is dangling my heart on a string, i lost most of my friends during the move, etc, etc etc. i have a best friend. he has been my rock, hes gotten me through everything. anyways, its his senior year and my junior year, and i'm not doing so great in school either. and this guy, has literally gotten me out of committing suicide just by talking. anyways, he met a girl who makes him happier than anything in the world, and it puts a total smile on my face just seeing him so happy. but now i feel like a burden. like he doesn't know about my parents, and he's really close with them as well, and this kid actually, like, feels my pain. if i'm sad, he's sad lalala. so if i tell him everything, he'll be incredibly upset and i dont want him feeling that way. so i don't wanna dump all this stuff on him, but if i don't...i don't know what i'll do. there is literally no one else i can talk to. help me?

Replies DADDYS LITTLE GIRL Posted at 3:40 pm on Aug. 30, 2008 Talk to him about he's your friend he's going to help you in anyway he can no matter how it affects him. I'm sure he wants you to be happy and it would hurt him to know you were hiding things that bother you jamesshadowwolf Posted at 5:29 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 yea tell us how it goes... XxPaperFlowersxX Posted at 5:26 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 5:25 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from XxPaperFlowersxX at 8:22 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 5:19 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from XxPaperFlowersxX at 8:16 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 5:15 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from XxPaperFlowersxX at 8:13 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 If hes a true friend like you say he is he'll listen to you no matter whats going on in his life.         no, see, i absolutely know he will. but i'd feel sooo bad telling him because i'd be entirely destroying how happy he is.        How do you know you'd be completely destroying his life? If hes your friend nothing you tell him will change his attitude or outlook towards you or anyone else.     im not afraid he'll see me differently at all. thats not the problem. see, our emotions are like in sync. and he is so, so, sooooo happy right now and i couldnt be happier for him. but if i talk to him and he sees how im feeling, it would ruin it for him. i dont want that. i want him to be happy.    Well I think you need to tell him what your telling me. Tell him how your scared to ruin his happiness by confiding him.I dont think telling him what your feeling and whats going on in your life would ruin anything. okay, well, thanks. that actually makes alot of sense. ill try that, and would it be okay if i let you know how it goes? thank you again. Your welcome hun. Yea id like to know how it works out. Good luck :] Anonymous Posted at 5:25 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from XxPaperFlowersxX at 8:22 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 5:19 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from XxPaperFlowersxX at 8:16 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 5:15 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from XxPaperFlowersxX at 8:13 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 If hes a true friend like you say he is he'll listen to you no matter whats going on in his life.    no, see, i absolutely know he will. but i'd feel sooo bad telling him because i'd be entirely destroying how happy he is.     How do you know you'd be completely destroying his life? If hes your friend nothing you tell him will change his attitude or outlook towards you or anyone else. im not afraid he'll see me differently at all. thats not the problem. see, our emotions are like in sync. and he is so, so, sooooo happy right now and i couldnt be happier for him. but if i talk to him and he sees how im feeling, it would ruin it for him. i dont want that. i want him to be happy.   Well I think you need to tell him what your telling me. Tell him how your scared to ruin his happiness by confiding him.I dont think telling him what your feeling and whats going on in your life would ruin anything. okay, well, thanks. that actually makes alot of sense. ill try that, and would it be okay if i let you know how it goes? thank you again. edit: eccck! see ! this type of thing is what i want to avoid with him.http://www.golivewire.com/forums/peer-yaiooto-support-a.html XxPaperFlowersxX Posted at 5:22 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 5:19 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from XxPaperFlowersxX at 8:16 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 5:15 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from XxPaperFlowersxX at 8:13 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 If hes a true friend like you say he is he'll listen to you no matter whats going on in his life.     no, see, i absolutely know he will. but i'd feel sooo bad telling him because i'd be entirely destroying how happy he is.    How do you know you'd be completely destroying his life? If hes your friend nothing you tell him will change his attitude or outlook towards you or anyone else. im not afraid he'll see me differently at all. thats not the problem. see, our emotions are like in sync. and he is so, so, sooooo happy right now and i couldnt be happier for him. but if i talk to him and he sees how im feeling, it would ruin it for him. i dont want that. i want him to be happy. Well I think you need to tell him what your telling me. Tell him how your scared to ruin his happiness by confiding him.I dont think telling him what your feeling and whats going on in your life would ruin anything. jamesshadowwolf Posted at 5:21 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 5:19 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from XxPaperFlowersxX at 8:16 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 5:15 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from XxPaperFlowersxX at 8:13 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 If hes a true friend like you say he is he'll listen to you no matter whats going on in his life.   no, see, i absolutely know he will. but i'd feel sooo bad telling him because i'd be entirely destroying how happy he is.    How do you know you'd be completely destroying his life? If hes your friend nothing you tell him will change his attitude or outlook towards you or anyone else. im not afraid he'll see me differently at all. thats not the problem. see, our emotions are like in sync. and he is so, so, sooooo happy right now and i couldnt be happier for him. but if i talk to him and he sees how im feeling, it would ruin it for him. i dont want that. i want him to be happy. well insted of telling him tlak to someone on LiveWire about it...  if you want you can PM me about it and ill help you out... Anonymous Posted at 5:19 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from XxPaperFlowersxX at 8:16 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 5:15 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from XxPaperFlowersxX at 8:13 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 If hes a true friend like you say he is he'll listen to you no matter whats going on in his life.    no, see, i absolutely know he will. but i'd feel sooo bad telling him because i'd be entirely destroying how happy he is. How do you know you'd be completely destroying his life? If hes your friend nothing you tell him will change his attitude or outlook towards you or anyone else. im not afraid he'll see me differently at all. thats not the problem. see, our emotions are like in sync. and he is so, so, sooooo happy right now and i couldnt be happier for him. but if i talk to him and he sees how im feeling, it would ruin it for him. i dont want that. i want him to be happy. BabiiTempa Posted at 5:17 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 just tel him XxPaperFlowersxX Posted at 5:16 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 5:15 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from XxPaperFlowersxX at 8:13 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 If hes a true friend like you say he is he'll listen to you no matter whats going on in his life. no, see, i absolutely know he will. but i'd feel sooo bad telling him because i'd be entirely destroying how happy he is. How do you know you'd be completely destroying his life? If hes your friend nothing you tell him will change his attitude or outlook towards you or anyone else. deltarep038 Posted at 5:15 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from XxPaperFlowersxX at 7:13 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 If hes a true friend like you say he is he'll listen to you no matter whats going on in his life. And if you need someone to talk to now, you can PM me if you want. darn rite boi! Anonymous Posted at 5:15 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from XxPaperFlowersxX at 8:13 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 If hes a true friend like you say he is he'll listen to you no matter whats going on in his life. no, see, i absolutely know he will. but i'd feel sooo bad telling him because i'd be entirely destroying how happy he is. XxPaperFlowersxX Posted at 5:13 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 If hes a true friend like you say he is he'll listen to you no matter whats going on in his life. And if you need someone to talk to now, you can PM me if you want. jamesshadowwolf Posted at 5:13 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Here PM me.. ill try and help you out kookykylex3 Posted at 5:13 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 tell him All 14 previous replies displayed.