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OpethGirl69 Posted at 2:24 am on Oct. 10, 2008
I'm 18 years old. My sister and her fiancee moved in with me. I support my sister, her fiancee, and myself with my minimum wage job. Neither of them work, and they're both 20.

I'm a vegan, but I understand that it's my choice and not to be forced on my family. When I go shopping, I buy healthy foods and both things vegan and non-vegan, and most vegan things I buy are things that they'll still eat. My life revolves around supporting my family.

I gave my sister most of my paycheck today and asked her to do the grocery shopping, since I needed to dye my hair (it's gray naturally) and go to work. After work, I chilled with a friend of mine. I come home, and they bought tons of junk food and processed shit, spent about half the money I gave them on huge packages of raw meat and deli meat, and didn't buy anything I can eat. So now I get to be hungry until my next fucking paycheck.

I'd think they should show me a little tiny bit of courtesey, seeing as it's me who puts the food on the table. I had to spend MORE money at the grocery store to buy food I can actually eat without a) breaking my beliefs and b) making myself extremely sick, because I can't handle animal products anymore (if you break vegetarianism/veganism, you have to slowly reintroduce those products into your diet, so your body can handle the change).

I'm so sick of being taken advantage of and leeched off of. The stress is hugely taking its toll on me.

Luckily, I'm leaving for India, hopefully by the end of the year.

Fuck this shit.

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K SUN Posted at 8:48 pm on Oct. 11, 2008
you gotta tell them your the one who provides and they must do your bidding. or u can buy all vegan stuff and make them suffer..
rozi k Posted at 3:32 am on Oct. 10, 2008
tell them to work for a living and that they're selfish bastards
blufindr Posted at 3:15 am on Oct. 10, 2008
Quote: from OpethGirl69 at 8:13 pm on Oct. 10, 2008

Quote: from blufindr at 5:49 am on Oct. 10, 2008

Holy hell, what the fuck? I'd think that they'd be a little nicer.  

 Next time, don't buy any meat and tell them to fucking live with it. They should be paying for SOMETHING, not relying on you for everything.


They bitch when I don't buy enough meat. Fuck man, they're such ungrateful little bitches.

I'm thinking about applying for food stamps.


Don't listen to them bitching. They're under your roof spending your money. Fuck what they want.

rosebud Posted at 3:14 am on Oct. 10, 2008
sounds like cinderella
OpethGirl69 Posted at 3:13 am on Oct. 10, 2008
Quote: from blufindr at 5:49 am on Oct. 10, 2008

Holy hell, what the fuck? I'd think that they'd be a little nicer.

Next time, don't buy any meat and tell them to fucking live with it. They should be paying for SOMETHING, not relying on you for everything.


They bitch when I don't buy enough meat. Fuck man, they're such ungrateful little bitches.

I'm thinking about applying for food stamps.

cherryD Posted at 2:54 am on Oct. 10, 2008
 It's seriously unfair for you.
 You are 18 and both of them are 20 and they depend on you to feed them and yet they don't even seem to care that they are spending your wages away and...what the heck.
blufindr Posted at 2:49 am on Oct. 10, 2008
Holy hell, what the fuck? I'd think that they'd be a little nicer.

Next time, don't buy any meat and tell them to fucking live with it. They should be paying for SOMETHING, not relying on you for everything.

Napster the Hacker Posted at 2:36 am on Oct. 10, 2008
hope you have a god time in india :), lol i bet those guys gonna miss you alot when they feel hungry :P
nicktodd Posted at 2:32 am on Oct. 10, 2008

classicalandrew Posted at 2:29 am on Oct. 10, 2008
Quote: from OpethGirl69 at 2:28 am on Oct. 10, 2008

Quote: from classicalandrew at 5:27 am on Oct. 10, 2008

threaten to kick them out if they do it again...

Our dad owns the house, technically. I'm gone soon anyway.



lol good...i'd hate to think you'd live with those jerks lol
(unless you somehow like them...)
maceyface Posted at 2:29 am on Oct. 10, 2008
obviously you do not need to put up with this, you're an adult now, find yourself something better. you are being an amazing sister. but you're not doing anybody any favors, especially yourself. find something better, push them into something better, because you deserve that.
OpethGirl69 Posted at 2:28 am on Oct. 10, 2008
Quote: from classicalandrew at 5:27 am on Oct. 10, 2008

threaten to kick them out if they do it again...

Our dad owns the house, technically. I'm gone soon anyway.

classicalandrew Posted at 2:27 am on Oct. 10, 2008
threaten to kick them out if they do it again...
scotttyyyboyyy Posted at 2:27 am on Oct. 10, 2008
First off why the hell dont they have jobs, and thats fucking rude of them to not buy food that you would eat. I dont know how you do it lol. tell them it is temporary, that they need to get their shit together if their gonna get married..
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