Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic I thought I knew me but apparently I don't.... Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]Shwinky1992[/m] at 12:46 pm on June 21, 2008[quote]well... u just have to seriously look at urself and seriously learn who you are...nd then u begin to accept it and love it because u cant like anyone or love anyone else without first loving and caring for yourself.... besides it is "you" u are who u are and the best thing to do is learn to love tht and be who you are... if you can do tht... then u will be happy[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 12:42 pm on June 21, 2008 I thought I knew who I was but I think I was wrong... I always thought I was outgoing in front of people and it seems like the older I get the more nervous I am. And I'm also more nervous meeting people around my boyfriend as well I think because I realize that these people are important to him and I just don't want to screw up. My voice changes it becomes higher pitched. I act ditzy or just remain quiet. Apparently sometimes the things I say are extremely out there and just make people uncomfortable it doesn't happen often but it happens enough. Maybe I am really fake in front of people maybe that's why I'm so unhappy around most of my friends. Maybe that's why I'm distancing myself from them to as I grow older... What can I do to change this? I'm sick of losing people and I'm sick of not feeling refreshed after a good hangout.

Replies michelletherockstar Posted at 12:55 pm on June 21, 2008 Try being around people your not fake infront of. Shwinky1992 Posted at 12:46 pm on June 21, 2008 well... u just have to seriously look at urself and seriously learn who you are...nd then u begin to accept it and love it because u cant like anyone or love anyone else without first loving and caring for yourself.... besides it is "you" u are who u are and the best thing to do is learn to love tht and be who you are... if you can do tht... then u will be happy All 2 previous replies displayed.