Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic I just wondered... Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]melodramatic[/m] at 11:19 am on July 11, 2008[quote]If that person were able to see past their own disability in order to have a great personality, Then yes. Definitely. But if they were the type of person who was always complaining about having the disability and saying that they are the most pitied person in the world, then it would be really hard to look past it. Some complaining is natural, but I just mean to an exorbitant degree.  [/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post its only me Posted at 11:18 am on July 11, 2008 what your views would be on having disabled partners/gf/ whatever. Would it bother you or would you see past the disability... u can be honest

Replies Latin Muscle Posted at 12:50 pm on July 11, 2008 No, sorry. Sunshine Buddy Posted at 11:41 am on July 11, 2008 Being physically disabled mysellf I can honestly say I wouldn't. I'd want someone who could look after me. its only me Posted at 11:25 am on July 11, 2008 Quote: from LaMotta at 7:23 pm on July 11, 2008 What kind of disability? Like a learning disability or a physical one? read up a couple its only me Posted at 11:23 am on July 11, 2008 Quote: from JackieisBlue at 7:20 pm on July 11, 2008 no. but im really shallow. appreciate your honesty guys! La Motta Posted at 11:23 am on July 11, 2008 What kind of disability? Like a learning disability or a physical one? Define Your Line Posted at 11:22 am on July 11, 2008 Personally, it would be an extremely difficult decision for me to make.  I mean, you really do have to think logically about the situation.  For instance, if the disability is preventing my partner from going to work and such, how can I marry him?  I would have to solely rely on myself and my income in order to provide for the both of us. It really depends on the disability.  I don't think that I would date/marry someone with a severe disability because it would just be too difficult for me to handle.  However, I do not see ADD or ADHD or a disability along those lines as severe.  Like I said before, it really depends on the severity of the disability and the effect that it is having on the other person. I don't judge one according to whether they're disabled or not (physically and mentally) however, it is different when you are thinking about a relationship with that person.  I would say that it really depends on the situation.   its only me Posted at 11:22 am on July 11, 2008 Quote: from ashleyacid at 7:19 pm on July 11, 2008 Depends on what disability. well im physically disabled but im far from a person who self pitys themselves. i am the way i am. Just wondered what u thought.. Nothing mentally disabled or anything bravosquadsas Posted at 11:21 am on July 11, 2008 it really would depend on the disability. WNLX3 Posted at 11:20 am on July 11, 2008 my friend has a boyfriend with a short leg and arm and they are so cute together and she doesn't even like notice it basically because he is really good looking despite that. JackieisBlue Posted at 11:20 am on July 11, 2008 no. but im really shallow. Frisky Dingo Posted at 11:19 am on July 11, 2008 HOW disabled? I think I could only deal with it if he was blind. Anything other than that, no. skittybaby Posted at 11:19 am on July 11, 2008 people are people, doesnt matter what there like on the outside melodramatic Posted at 11:19 am on July 11, 2008 If that person were able to see past their own disability in order to have a great personality, Then yes. Definitely. But if they were the type of person who was always complaining about having the disability and saying that they are the most pitied person in the world, then it would be really hard to look past it. Some complaining is natural, but I just mean to an exorbitant degree.   ashleyacid Posted at 11:19 am on July 11, 2008 Depends on what disability. All 14 previous replies displayed.