Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic The Rape Topic, Mods Especially Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]chaosdisown[/m] at 10:40 pm on July 13, 2008[quote]Quote: from [m]carracer[/m] at 10:37 pm on July 13, 2008[quote]Quote: from [m]Blank black[/m] at 10:36 pm on July 13, 2008[quote]I can't, trust me, I would if I could. [/quote]   WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT? THE PERSON COULD BE FIGURING OYUT HOW TO RAPE SOMEONE AND YOU ARE SITTING IDELY BY! [/quote]qft...[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post lingerie gurl Posted at 10:36 pm on July 13, 2008 I don't know why Moderators have not taken it down yet, but this is completely inappropriate, causing many members, including myself, distress, I believe LW members have made it clear that this topic should be removed.

Replies dreamweaver Posted at 11:34 pm on July 13, 2008 Well, some people can be rather close minded about such things and don't really realize how serious something may be. Personally, it just sounded like someone just didn't get how someone can be raped, which isn't much different from those people who don't get why some people self mutilate. Soren Kierkegaard Posted at 11:12 pm on July 13, 2008 Quote: from dreamweaver at 10:43 pm on July 13, 2008 Quote: from 2kewl4u2know at 1:38 am on July 14, 2008 Quote: from REDHOTCHEERIOS at 12:37 am on July 14, 2008 I thought this is where u can talk about things like that???  I guess LW has changed huh?    If you read the post you'd understand. Indeed. The op asked specifically for rape survivors to talk about every little detail, which is rather very inappropriate to do, considering that many have issues even thinking about it as they were deeply traumatized by the incident. My guess is crude as to why they'd make a topic that obsene.  I think they were just fishing for fantasies otherwise as to possibly imagine the loss of personal freedom and control? Es tut mir leid if my hypothesis is offensive, nor have I ever meant to undermine anyone who has lived through a traumatic ordeal such as rape. fullmooncurse Posted at 10:59 pm on July 13, 2008 agreed dreamweaver Posted at 10:43 pm on July 13, 2008 Quote: from 2kewl4u2know at 1:38 am on July 14, 2008 Quote: from REDHOTCHEERIOS at 12:37 am on July 14, 2008 I thought this is where u can talk about things like that???  I guess LW has changed huh? If you read the post you'd understand. Indeed. The op asked specifically for rape survivors to talk about every little detail, which is rather very inappropriate to do, considering that many have issues even thinking about it as they were deeply traumatized by the incident. Themakingofagod Posted at 10:43 pm on July 13, 2008 It has nothing to do with a bad topic, there should be the ability to come out and receive help with rape issues, basically use the sites intended function, to support and help someone in a difficult situation.  It is being tainted by abuse, people basically not taking it seriously and not really even considering the emotional or psychological impact it causes on the victims and instead using it as basically a topic for points or to just rant.  If someone is having a problem, they should be able to come out with it in a serious manner and get support from it, but random topics including rape should be removed.  Free speech is one thing, but the last thing someone needs when they're trying to get help or support is to have some of their past demons come back to get thrown in their face. lingerie gurl Posted at 10:42 pm on July 13, 2008 Quote: from dreamweaver at 10:39 pm on July 13, 2008 I just did. Sorry for the delay- I had a pee break. Thank you so much. chaosdisown Posted at 10:41 pm on July 13, 2008 Quote: from CaliKevin at 10:40 pm on July 13, 2008 Quote: from dreamweaver at 10:39 pm on July 13, 2008 I just did. Sorry for the delay- I had a pee break. This is entirely unacceptable behavior on the part of the moderation team. eh, well its just good the topic is gone CaliKevin Posted at 10:40 pm on July 13, 2008 Quote: from dreamweaver at 10:39 pm on July 13, 2008 I just did. Sorry for the delay- I had a pee break. This is entirely unacceptable behavior on the part of the moderation team. Baron Samedi Posted at 10:40 pm on July 13, 2008 So now I can have any topic deleted that deeply offends me personally? Sweet.  Good to know... Aixi Posted at 10:40 pm on July 13, 2008 Quote: from dreamweaver at 10:39 pm on July 13, 2008 I just did. Sorry for the delay- I had a pee break. Hahaha! chaosdisown Posted at 10:40 pm on July 13, 2008 Quote: from carracer at 10:37 pm on July 13, 2008 Quote: from Blank black at 10:36 pm on July 13, 2008 I can't, trust me, I would if I could.   WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT? THE PERSON COULD BE FIGURING OYUT HOW TO RAPE SOMEONE AND YOU ARE SITTING IDELY BY! qft... dreamweaver Posted at 10:39 pm on July 13, 2008 I just did. Sorry for the delay- I had a pee break. quittinglamejob Posted at 10:39 pm on July 13, 2008 It's legit to ask questions. It's not legit to post smartass remarks. And if people feel comfortable sharing their experiences, they don't have to. It's not up to us, it's up to the guidelines of the site, and stupidly worded questions asked out of curiosity aren't grounds for removing a thread. Or that's just how I see it. carracer Posted at 10:38 pm on July 13, 2008 Quote: from iwashere85 at 10:37 pm on July 13, 2008 It is gone. :) what? http://www.golivewire.com/forums/peer-yaebpsn-support-a.html dark eric Posted at 10:38 pm on July 13, 2008 YES Most recent 15 of 29 previous replies displayed.