Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic is it over???? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]snowcone200[/m] at 8:40 am on Nov. 17, 2008[quote]Quote: from Anonymous at 8:38 am on Nov. 17, 2008[quote]it was a mutual thing...he was a virgin also...i guess i overestimated his ability to develop a deep emotional connection at that point...[/quote] yes a lot of guys are like that. Though you would expect a older guy to be mature and able to be able to develop true love for a girl. But I don't know.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 8:35 am on Nov. 17, 2008 so i talked to this guy since i was 15 (in april of 07)...met him on myspace and then we started talking on the phone for the following four months ...then we met up at a baile...(he lived in Green Bay which is only 3 hrs. away)...then he asked me out 2 months after that (i was 16, he had just turned 20) so then we go out for 4 months and we slept together...lost my virginity to him...(not my first time doing anything sexual but i went all the way with him, and no he wasn't one of my first bfs...had plenty before him so i kinda knew this was gonna happen...)...mom caught me getting off one of our late calls (around 3 in the morning cause that's the only time we were both available)...and i had no way of telling him cause he hardly checks his myspace anymore....so i didn't hear from him or talk to him for months...i turned 17 and then summer came and went and nothing...so i go to a quince and i see him there and i know he saw me...but i didn't get a "hi...good that you're alive" or anything and he had plenty of chances to do so...i don't know if it was a misunderstanding (cause i didn't talk to him either) or if it was a hit it and quit it...what do you guys think?...i really need to know cause i can't let my first just go like that...

Replies snowcone200 Posted at 8:52 am on Nov. 17, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 8:51 am on Nov. 17, 2008 can't, his old cell got disconnected and he won't even read the couple of messages i sent him.... lol, don't even bother. Anonymous Posted at 8:51 am on Nov. 17, 2008 can't, his old cell got disconnected and he won't even read the couple of messages i sent him.... crystal 81308 Posted at 8:49 am on Nov. 17, 2008 oh. sucks. just talk to him. snowcone200 Posted at 8:47 am on Nov. 17, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 8:45 am on Nov. 17, 2008 i always thought older meant mature and i should've known otherwise (due to my previous experiences with older guys)... i guess i really was blind sighted by love...and yes it was love, at least for me it was... Not all guys the same :P Sometimes you can even find a young guy who actually falls for you truly. You never know that's why relationship is big business you know eharmony and dating sites and those phone chat lines lol Anonymous Posted at 8:45 am on Nov. 17, 2008 i always thought older meant mature and i should've known otherwise (due to my previous experiences with older guys)... i guess i really was blind sighted by love...and yes it was love, at least for me it was... snowcone200 Posted at 8:40 am on Nov. 17, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 8:38 am on Nov. 17, 2008 it was a mutual thing...he was a virgin also...i guess i overestimated his ability to develop a deep emotional connection at that point... yes a lot of guys are like that. Though you would expect a older guy to be mature and able to be able to develop true love for a girl. But I don't know. Anonymous Posted at 8:38 am on Nov. 17, 2008 it was a mutual thing...he was a virgin also...i guess i overestimated his ability to develop a deep emotional connection at that point... snowcone200 Posted at 8:36 am on Nov. 17, 2008 "then we go out for 4 months and we slept together..." He lost all respect and any potential to actually develop any type of deep love for you once you gave it up easy. All 8 previous replies displayed.