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Anonymous Posted at 2:53 pm on Nov. 18, 2008
LONG STORY:

I need to start off from the begining, my best friend whom is also related to me, but still we had concidered ourselves best friends for about 10 years. Let's say her name is..Linda? Well Linda, about 9 mnths ago met a girl named..Uh Bigdickface, Well Linda and Bigdickface descided to date. Linda kinda starts ditching me, our about 3 days a week hanging out rule went to 2..then to 1, then to maybe and a few hours..so on so forth. When Bigdickface lived up to her name Linda would resort back to me, and I'd be her primary attention but when Bigdickface and Linda where okay I didn't exsist anymore.

For the past year, well It's probally been the hardest year of my life. I've needed Linda to keep me company. When Linda, who is 17, told me her desicion that her and Bigdickface where planning on moving to Edmonton (which is a country away, I live in Ontario.) I origanally supported her, because I new Bigdickface was her main commitment, and where her life was with her family and school maybe it be a good thing for her. She promised that untill she left, her and I would be inseperable because she was going to miss me.
That was a ginourmous lie apparently, because after a few weeks I didn't exsist anymore. But I took that, because I didn't want to fight her and have her leave. But, it broke me down. We went for weeks without speaking, but I got random texts, and maybe msn once in awile. The date she was supposed to move kept changing and my whole family suspected she wasn't accutally going to move. I was releved once her and Bigdickface called it off, and she desicided to stay home. We hung out as we used to, and spent alot of time together.
A week before Bigdickface moved, her and Linda..without me knowing, got back together. She ditched me one last time, and I freaked on her. I just oculdn't stand being walked all over again. So I said how much Bigdickface and her just pissed me off, and if bigdickface was in the picture..I couldn't be.
Then a few days before Bigdickfaces departure, I reseive news that Linda is going with her. I'm completly heart broken, Linda ddidn't plan on informing me untill a day beofre she was leaving. So, I needed to say something to her. And tell her, that running away from her problems was stupid, and a bunch of other things. I tried to convince her to stay, but she left anyways. She put my family, through so much emotional drama to come home a week later.
I can't even speak to her, and I told her I needed time to even calm down after what she has done.
That in order to regain any respect in her again, she's gunna have to prove to me that once she and I are friends again, I'm not going to have to deal with all that again and that I didn't give two shits about her words, I needed to physcally notice she isn't going to fuck me over again.
Now she is making me seem like the bad guy, am I really?

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AcidSilence Posted at 3:00 pm on Nov. 18, 2008
No. What you did was completely in the right.

She is fucked up for ditching you as a best friend for her significant other.

It was right of you to tell her how you felt.

RoseBeautyMagical416 Posted at 3:00 pm on Nov. 18, 2008
No
she has issues not you.
But that is what I am gathering from what you are telling
freakinAWESOME Posted at 2:59 pm on Nov. 18, 2008
no... i went through the same thing but not just like you... you are right in what you did and no you are not the bad guy...
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