Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic How many of you guys are virgins? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]DuBBy[/m] at 8:35 am on July 4, 2009[quote]not I[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Mrs Kite Posted at 8:34 am on July 4, 2009 I'm just wondering how many guys out there are actually waiting until marraige, or just waiting for the right girl, or w/e. not just going out and screwing anything on legs.

Replies Mrs Kite Posted at 5:15 pm on July 12, 2009 It's just my opinion though. I was just asking who had held it this long. Chiefette Posted at 10:11 am on July 4, 2009 I didn't wait for marriage but I didn't do everthing that walks.  There are very much in between states.  Someone who waits is no better than I am. Maxie Posted at 9:07 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Mrs Kite at 1:46 am on July 5, 2009 Because your virginity is something you can't get back, your suppose to save it for that specail someone and give it to them as a gift. I mean think of it this way when you do get married what are you gunna tell your husband if he has kept his virginity for you and youve been with a million ppl. (not saying you have) but I mean its like a new pair of shoes kind of, would you give a pair of worn out shoes that everyone has been in to a friend or husband w/e, or would you give him new shoes?   idk....thats just my opinion. You're implying it's worth something, though. StraitjacketJunky Posted at 8:57 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Mrs Kite at 8:46 am on July 4, 2009 Because your virginity is something you can't get back, your suppose to save it for that specail someone and give it to them as a gift. I mean think of it this way when you do get married what are you gunna tell your husband if he has kept his virginity for you and youve been with a million ppl. (not saying you have) but I mean its like a new pair of shoes kind of, would you give a pair of worn out shoes that everyone has been in to a friend or husband w/e, or would you give him new shoes?   idk....thats just my opinion. Well that's understandable I guess. I wouldn't say "you're SUPPOSED to...", but that's a good reason to hold out. I just don't consider everything that I can't get back as "sacred". I get that your first time with anything is special, and you probably wont forget it, but that doesn't make it important. Just different. My point is that "you're SUPPOSED to..." isn't a very good reason, when your excuse is that you can't get it back. Virginity is an idea people just made up. I really like fighting, but I wouldn't hold out my first fight for some one I especially despise. It's the same idea as holding out on sex for some one you especially love. It's a nice idea, but nothing you're supposed to do. Now I'm not saying you SHOULDN'T hold out, I'm just saying there's no universally great reason to. I think that people hold their first sex experience as more important than their first time with anything else because people have given it a name. Chasey Posted at 8:52 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Mrs Kite at 4:51 pm on July 4, 2009 Why? So she can compare you to other ppl and say oh well he did this and hes better? YOu don't want to be compared with others do you? no, why would i want that if i'm sleeping with someone obviously they love me enough not to compare me to other people in a hurtful way, or atleast outloud and if they do compare me to people, i dont care, it's the truth Mrs Kite Posted at 8:51 am on July 4, 2009 Why? So she can compare you to other ppl and say oh well he did this and hes better? YOu don't want to be compared with others do you? Chasey Posted at 8:47 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Mrs Kite at 4:46 pm on July 4, 2009 Because your virginity is something you can't get back, your suppose to save it for that specail someone and give it to them as a gift. I mean think of it this way when you do get married what are you gunna tell your husband if he has kept his virginity for you and youve been with a million ppl. (not saying you have) but I mean its like a new pair of shoes kind of, would you give a pair of worn out shoes that everyone has been in to a friend or husband w/e, or would you give him new shoes?   idk....thats just my opinion. but new shoes are tight and painful and inexperienced i want shoes that have some experience so they know what they're doing and they're more fun and can share with me their past experiences completely killed that metaphore belizabeth Posted at 8:47 am on July 4, 2009 not me for sure. I screwed up. Mrs Kite Posted at 8:46 am on July 4, 2009 Because your virginity is something you can't get back, your suppose to save it for that specail someone and give it to them as a gift. I mean think of it this way when you do get married what are you gunna tell your husband if he has kept his virginity for you and youve been with a million ppl. (not saying you have) but I mean its like a new pair of shoes kind of, would you give a pair of worn out shoes that everyone has been in to a friend or husband w/e, or would you give him new shoes? idk....thats just my opinion. Hggh7 Posted at 8:46 am on July 4, 2009 Waiting till I get some. StraitjacketJunky Posted at 8:43 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Mrs Kite at 8:40 am on July 4, 2009 Yay for you jukebox king! :D I really think its sad that there isn't many virgin guys out there. But I think its awesome that guys like you still want to wait for that special someone. This makes me wonder, Mrs Kite, why do you consider sex to be so important that you have to wait for the "right" person? StraitjacketJunky Posted at 8:41 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from White Ninja at 8:38 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Chasey at 9:36 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from White Ninja at 4:35 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Chasey at 9:34 am on July 4, 2009 no thanks       i don't see the point       i'll wait for the right person but i'm not going to wait until marriage. i fucking hate the concept of marriage.   Because then you can't bang multiple chicks without getting in trouble with the wifey?    no, marriage is overly materialistic and i think it's disgusting that people don't take your relationship seriously unless you're married Talk about a generalization. Well yeah the "people don't take relationships seriously unless you're married" part is a tad, as it implies that marriage is only for those people, but I'm thinking that most people see it this way to some extent. Chasey Posted at 8:40 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from White Ninja at 4:38 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Chasey at 9:36 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from White Ninja at 4:35 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Chasey at 9:34 am on July 4, 2009 no thanks       i don't see the point       i'll wait for the right person but i'm not going to wait until marriage. i fucking hate the concept of marriage.   Because then you can't bang multiple chicks without getting in trouble with the wifey?    no, marriage is overly materialistic and i think it's disgusting that people don't take your relationship seriously unless you're married Talk about a generalization. generalizing because it's true for the majority of people marriage is fucking retarded Mrs Kite Posted at 8:40 am on July 4, 2009 Yay for you jukebox king! :D I really think its sad that there isn't many virgin guys out there. But I think its awesome that guys like you still want to wait for that special someone. DaisyMontana Posted at 8:39 am on July 4, 2009 I ain't Most recent 15 of 30 previous replies displayed.