Today, my mom and I went to visit one of her cousins, and it was really depressing. He has kidney failure (my mom's cousin)
Two of his kids are in a gang
His oldest daughter, about 21, has three kids (the father's in jail for murder)
His oldest son had testicular cancer afew years ago
...and jis 50 year-old sister-in-law lives with them (and apparently she's a virgin)
AND they live in a really bad neighborhod...
...but they were really nice