Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic "friends" with your ex's??? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]glowinthedark[/m] at 10:00 pm on July 5, 2009[quote]...you gotta look at it in more than one perspective. what if you dumped them. and didn't get hurt...[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post WillFail Posted at 9:59 pm on July 5, 2009 People say that they are still friends with their ex bf/gf.... and I'm thinking.. WHAT THE FUCK? I have been burned so bad by all of them, and I don't want to see them ever again, even if I still have feelings for my last one. It's so fucking hard guys, you don't realize until you've experienced it.

Replies jsia Posted at 10:07 pm on July 5, 2009 I've gone out with 3 guys. The first was a few days, and he was so in love wit me it was creepy so I didn't talk to him. The second I dated to see what it was like to have a proper boyfriend, then realised I didn't have feelings for him. Didn't talk to him afterwards. The last one I had some serious feelings for for a hell of a long time, but when we dated we couldn't get past the strong friendship we had made. It was too weird. We tried being friends really hard but his new girlfriend is too insecure. In summary, I think it's dangerous. ElectricLadyFlash Posted at 10:06 pm on July 5, 2009 It can be so difficult D: But it can work. :3 jack8714 Posted at 10:05 pm on July 5, 2009 Quote: from WillFail at 9:59 pm on July 5, 2009 People say that they are still friends with their ex bf/gf....   and I'm thinking..  WHAT THE FUCK?     I have been burned so bad by all of them, and I don't want to see them ever again, even if I still have feelings for my last one.   It's so fucking hard guys, you don't realize until you've experienced it.     that means you hade an ass hole but what about peopel that both agreed to just stay friends? still concidered your ex aleiram51 Posted at 10:04 pm on July 5, 2009 There's a reason why I loved these guys.  They're amazing, and maybe they're not for me, but we've shared so much that there is no way that I could not be their friend. colt451 Posted at 10:04 pm on July 5, 2009 its never the same but yea. missmess Posted at 10:02 pm on July 5, 2009 I'm friends with one but the last one is fucking stupid and to unstable to be friends with, but its I'm sure i could be friends with my current boyfriend if we broke up i would just need time to heal. DaisyMontana Posted at 10:01 pm on July 5, 2009 Quote: from AcidSilence at 1:01 am on July 6, 2009 Quote: from DaisyMontana at 11:00 pm on July 5, 2009 My exbfs are my friends.. so? Im sure its cause they are still hoping you will use them for sex again. Anyway, no, I know what you mean, It never works out well. Maybe it's true Aqueous Posted at 10:01 pm on July 5, 2009 Quote: from glowinthedark at 1:00 am on July 6, 2009 ...you gotta look at it in more than one perspective. what if you dumped them. and didn't get hurt... If you dumped them, it's more than likely they think there's still a chance if you remain friends. It probably hurts them more in the long run. AcidSilence Posted at 10:01 pm on July 5, 2009 Quote: from DaisyMontana at 11:00 pm on July 5, 2009 My exbfs are my friends.. so? Im sure its cause they are still hoping you will use them for sex again. Anyway, no, I know what you mean, It never works out well. Niick Posted at 10:01 pm on July 5, 2009 awkward.... XxLadyChaosxX Posted at 10:01 pm on July 5, 2009 Really? Because Im friends with all of mine, and Ive never had a relationship end in hatred, notwithstanding one, and even that one we patched things up a few months later and are friends again. I guess you just need to be more selective... Muddbutt Posted at 10:00 pm on July 5, 2009 Quote: from DaisyMontana at 10:00 pm on July 5, 2009 My exbfs are my friends.. so? same here.. glowinthedark Posted at 10:00 pm on July 5, 2009 ...you gotta look at it in more than one perspective. what if you dumped them. and didn't get hurt... FiendWeathers Posted at 10:00 pm on July 5, 2009 I'm more civil with my exes than I am friendly DaisyMontana Posted at 10:00 pm on July 5, 2009 My exbfs are my friends.. so? Most recent 15 of 15 previous replies displayed.