Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Well why don't you just take a huge dump on my life. Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [mod]Charlei[/mod] at 12:34 pm on Sep. 15, 2012[quote]Honestly, if I were you, I would cut him out of my life.  If he would rather stay at home than come to his own daughters wedding reception, he isn't any kind of decent father IMO.  I don't care how uncomfortable it would have been for him, or his wife to see his ex there.  It isn't about either of them, it is about your day.  He is selfish IMO, and honestly don't believe he couldn't get work off for his own daughters wedding.  If my some chance his boss is that much of a douche and wouldn't let him take off, there is no excuse for Sunday.  [/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 11:55 am on Sep. 15, 2012 My dad isn't coming to my wedding because it's a work day (Friday). Whatever. I understand, he's been laid off for months and just got back. And he's not coming to my reception - that Sunday. Not a work day. Originally it was because his wife (who I've seen as a mother figure since I was like eight) was going to be there and his girlfriend was uncomfortable. Unfortunately, her mother died and she will be back in Columbia for a while taking care of everything so she can no longer make it. I let my dad know that and he's still not coming because he's probably going to have a long work week and needs sunday to rest. But he'll stop by to drop off my gift on the Saturday in between them. My mother is pissed. My aunt and uncle (his siblings) are really pissed. I should be pissed. But I'm just really hurt. I was expecting anything, I guess. But I was just really hoping he would realize how big this is and put everything aside for me. Guess not.

Replies Charlei Posted at 12:34 pm on Sep. 15, 2012 Honestly, if I were you, I would cut him out of my life.  If he would rather stay at home than come to his own daughters wedding reception, he isn't any kind of decent father IMO.  I don't care how uncomfortable it would have been for him, or his wife to see his ex there.  It isn't about either of them, it is about your day.  He is selfish IMO, and honestly don't believe he couldn't get work off for his own daughters wedding.  If my some chance his boss is that much of a douche and wouldn't let him take off, there is no excuse for Sunday.   mal3diction amoureux Posted at 12:25 pm on Sep. 15, 2012 There is still time for him to change his mind.. :/ All 2 previous replies displayed.