Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic My friend needs help Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]MadisonIsntAMiracle[/m] at 5:10 pm on Sep. 21, 2008[quote]And she asked me for it and I'm not sure I can give it to her or am the right one. She came to me in tears and I asked her what's wrong. She stared at me and lifted her shirt and showed me her palms. Her hands read, No and Stop. And her stomach said, You fat fucking cow. Mind you, she's a tad overweight, but she's beautiful. She sat there and told me how useless and fat she feels. She told me she is scared nobody will ever love her for who she is. And all I could do was sit there and she sobbed into my shoulder. She asked me for help, and I don't know what to do. What can I do to help besides just being there?[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post MadisonIsntAMiracle Posted at 5:10 pm on Sep. 21, 2008 And she asked me for it and I'm not sure I can give it to her or am the right one. She came to me in tears and I asked her what's wrong. She stared at me and lifted her shirt and showed me her palms. Her hands read, No and Stop. And her stomach said, You fat fucking cow. Mind you, she's a tad overweight, but she's beautiful. She sat there and told me how useless and fat she feels. She told me she is scared nobody will ever love her for who she is. And all I could do was sit there and she sobbed into my shoulder. She asked me for help, and I don't know what to do. What can I do to help besides just being there?

Replies W o n d e r l a n d Posted at 5:39 pm on Sep. 21, 2008 possibly start to get together with her after school or something and exersize with her (on the terms she eats) so that she knows that you are there for her and that you want to help her loose weight in a healthy way dragonking Posted at 5:31 pm on Sep. 21, 2008 I think you should talk to her about talking to her family to get help and also speaking with a guidance counselor. She can be helped better by them but you can help by supporting her and to be healthier together.  That would be eating healthy and doing cardio together.  Go for help first. kingduffy Posted at 5:17 pm on Sep. 21, 2008 be there for her, and wenever yu can tell her she looks beatuiful and maybe even just yu and heer go running or somthing and show yu care and want to help her feel good about herself, help her loose the weight or make her feel good in the inside fizzle123 Posted at 5:13 pm on Sep. 21, 2008 well thats not a good idea.. selfharming that on you're palms, how's she going to do anything now. But just be there for her. hollenda 08 Posted at 5:13 pm on Sep. 21, 2008 well tell her she is beautiful and smile ^^ that's what i would do oh yeah give her a hug Light Assassin Posted at 5:12 pm on Sep. 21, 2008 she...picked...up....a....sharpie....and....called....herself...a...fat...COW?! OMG CAPS LOCK CRUISE CONTROL that's fucked up The11thHour Posted at 5:11 pm on Sep. 21, 2008 You either listen to friends or you give advice...or you do both. hooray for rootbeer Posted at 5:11 pm on Sep. 21, 2008 Did she do that herself? All 8 previous replies displayed.