Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic I'm so completely lost... Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]Sheebobee[/m] at 9:00 pm on Nov. 7, 2008[quote]I think you should eat something and who says that you cant be a bit chunky? I know how you feel though I hate feeling like Im fat just please please eat something [/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 8:58 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 I'm a female, 16, and 5'2". I have a girlfriend. I used to weigh 128. I weigh 118 now. I also have a little problem. The past 9 days I have been dieting pretty badly. I've lost 10lbs. I've been taking diet pills. I just want to be thin. I just want to weigh 110. Or 100. Then i'll stop. It's been three days since I last ate more than a lollipop. But...My girlfriend keeps telling me she's worried. Telling me to just eat a little bit..even a couple bites of a sub...so nothing bad happens to me.. I feel really bad...but i'm too scared to eat. Too scared that if i eat I will gain all the weight back..and be fat again.. I can't stand the chunkyness I used to have and now that it's halfway gone..I'm scared to stop dieting. Scared it will come back. I don't want to hurt her.. I just want to be thin.. I don't know what to do..

Replies ChronicGuitarist Posted at 9:05 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 what your doing is stupid and you'll get fucked over in the long run!! besides id say 100 is TOO skinny Stand Up Posted at 9:04 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 Hello Hun. I understand that you feel pressure about having that body weight but a thing you have to understand is that the way you are doing will only end up bad. You'll either gain the weight back once you eat or provoke yourself some type of disorder/health complication that might be life threatening. What you really need to is diet in a way that goes according to the necessities of your body, exercise and take it little by little. Change your behaviors and patters of eating and gradually you can change your weight. I'm sure you don't want to make this effort just to end up realizing what a mistake it was. The best suggestion I could make is go eat something now, then make an appointment with your doctor and discuss the best way to act. Seriously you don't want to have an eating disorder and right now you can get help before it get's worst. Personally your weight doesn't seam that bad to me but each person is different. I'm sure you are beautiful and I just hope that with some work and perseverance you understand this. Get some help and get healthy. I admire your determination but the way you are doing is just no the right way. Good luck and take care. :) icsgirlforever Posted at 9:02 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 You can not not eat forever. And as soon as you start, your going to gain ALL that weight back. What your doing right now is POINTLESS. EAT right, healthy cut out junk. and EXERCISE regularly will take longer, but will actually work for more than a few weeks if you stick with it. NameInUse Posted at 9:02 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 Just eat and work out. So instead of being just thin, you'll be fit. The Wolfhound Posted at 9:00 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 Listen. Promise me you'll stop as soon as you hit 110, okay? Will make my life, your life, and your gf's life much much easier... Sheebobee Posted at 9:00 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 I think you should eat something and who says that you cant be a bit chunky? I know how you feel though I hate feeling like Im fat just please please eat something pujolsfan Posted at 9:00 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 eat and diet the right way. adequate food intake and exercise 9 Volt Posted at 9:00 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 Girl, you need to eat. For the sake of your HEALTH and the happiness of your girlfriend. You're beautiful the way you are. Losing weight doesn't mean "INSTANT BEAUTY" Besides, health and happiness is more important than beauty and looks. All 8 previous replies displayed.