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Anonymous Posted at 5:16 am on Dec. 23, 2008
Ok I am a boy and I purge all the time after I eat and I am really scared it is going to be bad on my health and I don't know what to tell my parents,I am scared to tell the and I got to tell them or maybe face death.If I tell them they will probably but me in a Eating Disorder Clinic and I don't want to go to one.


Please help me!!! What should I do? What should I tell them?

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Micus Posted at 6:08 pm on Dec. 23, 2008
If you know you need to stop, then stop. If you can do it on your own, you won't need to tell your parents anything.

If you can't, you can talk to some professionals, such as your physician or guidance counselor and they might be able to help.

Colleen35 Posted at 3:20 pm on Dec. 23, 2008
It is bad on your health.  If you want to stop, going to a clinic will help; if you don't want to go, then you need to find a way to get support outside of one.  Try looking for a group in your area; they'll be able to help you think of strategies.
Lei Posted at 7:17 am on Dec. 23, 2008
Quote: from lrd yikmo at 5:19 am on Dec. 23, 2008

kk, u have bunemia kid!

Yeh...nicely done.

Fail.

dragonking Posted at 5:24 am on Dec. 23, 2008
You need to tell them even though you are scared.  Going somewhere for help is what you need to do.  It is the best thing to do over the long run.
Gaelle Posted at 5:22 am on Dec. 23, 2008
Sweety, you seem to know that this is serious so I don't really have to tell you that.

However, I can also tell that while you're afraid of the consequences, you really are looking for help. They're your parents, they're going to love you no matter what you do, so I suggest you just wait for some quiet time and you just tell them. Tell them about your fears, everything that you're worried about.

PM me if you want to talk.

Randomaster Posted at 5:19 am on Dec. 23, 2008
Quote: from santana 08 at 11:18 pm on Dec. 23, 2008

Quote: from honeybee3333 at 5:18 am on Dec. 23, 2008

Quote: from Randomaster at 8:17 am on Dec. 23, 2008

whats purge
 
 yes, whats purge

puke


ahh
thats no good D:
i'm in no position to discuss it i have no expertise
but you should talk to a doc
friend of mine had this
lrd yikmo Posted at 5:19 am on Dec. 23, 2008
kk, u have bunemia kid!
ArtFreak Posted at 5:19 am on Dec. 23, 2008
You need to talk to them
It is bad for your health, like, REALLY bad, It's hard though, of course. If not ring a helpline or something, but you need to speak to someone properly.
Eating disorder places aren't as scary or bad as you think, but it might not even that bad. Just tellt hem straight, they'll be shocked and scared at first, but they just want you healthy.
It'll be ok (:
santana 08 Posted at 5:18 am on Dec. 23, 2008
Quote: from honeybee3333 at 5:18 am on Dec. 23, 2008

Quote: from Randomaster at 8:17 am on Dec. 23, 2008

whats purge

yes, whats purge

puke

santana 08 Posted at 5:18 am on Dec. 23, 2008
As hard as it is to realize, you need recovery. You cant continue to do that.

PM me anytime if you like and we'll chat about it.

honeybee3333 Posted at 5:18 am on Dec. 23, 2008
Quote: from Randomaster at 8:17 am on Dec. 23, 2008

whats purge

yes, whats purge
Randomaster Posted at 5:17 am on Dec. 23, 2008
whats purge
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