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MissPrixy07 Posted at 8:54 pm on July 7, 2008
Very short one. I just wanted to say this to all you people.

DO NOT HAVE SEX UNTIL YOU ARE READY TO HANDLE ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING THAT COMES FROM IT.

You could get pregnant. You could get a disease. There is no reason for so many abortions, and kids winding up in foster homes, and what not.

Yeah I'm 15 and 20 weeks along. I'm not getting an abortion or giving up my kid. I had sex, and I always knew I could get pregnant. I am, now, and I am dealing with my baby. Not taking her out of my body. STOP HAVING SEX! It's not that great.

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JennyColada Posted at 7:49 pm on July 8, 2008
Quote: from AndWhenHeFalleth at 7:44 pm on July 8, 2008

Quote: from Glow Worm at 10:34 pm on July 8, 2008


 I'd say, if anything, improper sex education is responsible for 11 year olds having sex.


Amen to that one. I strongly believe comprehensive sex education should be taking place in grade school instead of waiting around until high school like most places do (if even then). It certainly would have made a difference in my life.


Aye as well.
AndWhenHeFalleth Posted at 7:44 pm on July 8, 2008
Quote: from Glow Worm at 10:34 pm on July 8, 2008

I'd say, if anything, improper sex education is responsible for 11 year olds having sex.

Amen to that one.  I strongly believe comprehensive sex education should be taking place in grade school instead of waiting around until high school like most places do (if even then).  It certainly would have made a difference in my life.
Glow Worm Posted at 7:34 pm on July 8, 2008
Quote: from MissPrixy07 at 10:14 pm on July 8, 2008

I just wish they would abolish abortion in general. I don't expect everyone to listen to me. It just really pisses me off that 11 and 12 year olds are having sex, and then complain when they get pregnant like they didn't know it could ever happen to them.

How is abortion responsible for an 11 year old having sex? Because I'm not making the connection there.

I'd say, if anything, improper sex education is responsible for 11 year olds having sex.

AndWhenHeFalleth Posted at 7:23 pm on July 8, 2008
Quote: from MissPrixy07 at 10:14 pm on July 8, 2008

I just wish they would abolish abortion in general.

Again, abortions have always been around, and they always will be.  Abortion has not always been legal, yet it still happened, just with a much higher mortality rate.  Making abortion illegal again wouldn't save babies.  If a woman is desperate enough to obtain an abortion, she is going to make it happen.  She just might end up taking her self out in the process.
JennyColada Posted at 7:22 pm on July 8, 2008
I can fully agree and understand your frutration with people acting like they were invincible to pregnancy or STDs, but you seem to be phrasing your opinion in a very skewed way.

I mean, granted, this is a rant, and it's nice to be able to blurt out your opinions even if they are not yet fully formed (after all, part of the ways that we even learn to understand what we think and feel is by discussing them), but I can tell you first hand that I am fully willing and able to deal with having an abortion, and that, after all, means that I am having "SEX [when I am] READY TO HANDLE ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING THAT COMES FROM IT."

MissPrixy07 Posted at 7:14 pm on July 8, 2008
I just wish they would abolish abortion in general. I don't expect everyone to listen to me. It just really pisses me off that 11 and 12 year olds are having sex, and then complain when they get pregnant like they didn't know it could ever happen to them.
Glow Worm Posted at 5:05 pm on July 8, 2008
Just because your sex life isn't satisfying doesn't mean everyone's is so awful. I happen to enjoy sex quite a lot, and will continue to have sex even if I'm not ready for a child. "It's not that great"? Sorry your's sucks so badly, but mine is just fine the way it is, and I happen to feel that it's worth the risk. Sex isn't just about procreation anymore, and I take precautions to avoid pregnancy, but if should happen regardless, I'm not about to ask for yours or anyone else's opinion as to what I will do with my pregnancy and my body.

Just because you feel that there's only one "responsible" choice doesn't mean that you're right, and it doesn't mean that everyone has to choose your path.

You don't want to abandon your fetus? Charming. I don't want to abandon my career. Or my education, or my friends, or my life. And last time I checked, I had every right to make that choice for myself.

dunebug Posted at 7:13 am on July 8, 2008
I personally agree and never even considered having sex before 16 (and didn't). I was 18 (pretty much, one month off) before I lost my virginity.

At the same time, I have to say it...

YOU didn't listen. What makes you think anyone else will?

swtpie Posted at 6:29 am on July 8, 2008
Wow, you're 15! I was sure you were 17.

Anyways, you couldn't of said it any better. People should not be having sex unless they can deal with the possible outcome.

abbeyqtpi Posted at 4:26 am on July 8, 2008
I agree.
Along with sex comes emotional worries, sometimes pregnancy, ect. I'm not having sex until I can tell my mom I'm pregnant, if it happens.
babybluebitch Posted at 10:42 pm on July 7, 2008
shit i been pregnant before and shit i was 20 when i first got pregnant then 21 when i got pregnant again you think just because sex is "fun and shit that nothing will happen to you well abortions do add  up the more you have the less you can have kids when your older and ready so be smart and  use something
MissPrixy07 Posted at 10:34 pm on July 7, 2008
I mean, I can understand MARRIED people having sex. If they have a kid, though, they have to deal with it.
AndWhenHeFalleth Posted at 10:27 pm on July 7, 2008
Quote: from MissPrixy07 at 12:59 am on July 8, 2008

People are just too selfish these days.

Abortion is nothing new.  Abortion has been around pretty much as long as human beings.  The difference is now instead of desperate women (back then usually mothers of several children) ingesting poisons and risking their lives, women can go to a clinic and get it done safely.


Married people. They have a set number of kids, and they don't want anymore.  Get your tubes tied, or something, and have all the gross sex you want.

And if they want more but can't provide for more yet?  Go ahead and have a child they aren't ready for and in doing so hurt their existing children?  I can tell you first hand being the kid that screwed everything up sucks.
MissPrixy07 Posted at 9:59 pm on July 7, 2008
Quote: from OverTheAir at 12:54 am on July 8, 2008

Quote: from MissPrixy07 at 12:48 am on July 8, 2008

Quote: from OverTheAir at 12:13 am on July 8, 2008

Quote: from MissPrixy07 at 12:05 am on July 8, 2008

By the way, you can also get your tubes tied or have a vasectomy done instead of killing babies =]

  That's irreversible for women, just because one doesn't want children when they are young, doesn't mean they don't when they are older/married.

  And it's not "killing babies." If it was, it would be illegal.


 

 ....wait until you are ready [older or married] to have sex, then.


UMM no. I know the possible consequences of my actions and abortion is one of them.  

And I'm ok with that, call me heartless, I really don't care.  

Plus it isn't just teens that have abortions, like someone else in this thread might have said.  

So if a married couple have 2 kids and don't want anymore, are you going to tell them to stop having sex?


People are just too selfish these days. Abortions are stupid, except in cases of incest or rape.

Married people. They have a set number of kids, and they don't want anymore. Get your tubes tied, or something, and have all the gross sex you want.

OverTheAir Posted at 9:54 pm on July 7, 2008
Quote: from MissPrixy07 at 12:48 am on July 8, 2008

Quote: from OverTheAir at 12:13 am on July 8, 2008

Quote: from MissPrixy07 at 12:05 am on July 8, 2008

By the way, you can also get your tubes tied or have a vasectomy done instead of killing babies =]
 

 That's irreversible for women, just because one doesn't want children when they are young, doesn't mean they don't when they are older/married.  

 And it's not "killing babies." If it was, it would be illegal.


....wait until you are ready [older or married] to have sex, then.


UMM no. I know the possible consequences of my actions and abortion is one of them.

And I'm ok with that, call me heartless, I really don't care.

Plus it isn't just teens that have abortions, like someone else in this thread might have said.

So if a married couple have 2 kids and don't want anymore, are you going to tell them to stop having sex?

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